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Sexually Employed

I started documenting some unusual changes in my husband. The first for me was the lots of new styles and things he introduced in our sex life. I do not mind adventure in sex but this sudden need to try these new things with me in the bedroom, things that were never our…
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Excuses for poor performance?

Ah, I don’t get it when men try to give excuses for why they don’t last. My favourite is “sex is not like it is in movies, five minutes is okay” bla bla bla. Hw3, brother “sa wo ho yale3” and stop giving excuses or find different strategy. Kwata kwata, 3…
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Under 5-minute men

Mr. David, good morning, I read a post from the man who says he can’t go beyond 2 minutes. I think my husband is between 4 to 5 minutes. It’s not only him because it just occurred to me that, the exes I had dated all couldn’t go beyond 5 to 6 minutes. I have dated an…
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Cheap commodity

Mr.David, I need your advice urgently. I am a good woman and my husband has been testifying to that to his friends and family. I fell in love with a charming stranger who later became my friend and now husband. The odd thing about my husband is he makes other people believe…
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Sexual gratification

Good morning David, trust all is good. I have been reading about ladies complaining about how unsatisfied they are with their husbands in the bedroom because they don’t last. From personal experience, a lot of factors contribute to that. First of all, is everything…
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Sex marathon before divorce

You are making me remember things, David Bondze-Mbir. And it ain’t funny. I went to work one Friday, wearing a short skirt with no panties on, the morning after I had found out my husband was meeting his side chick at a hotel to spend the weekend. He told me he had an…
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Men, take better care of yourselves

Hi Dave, well last night I struggled to sleep. While I was at my struggle, I found myself thinking of the 1-minute men and men ejaculating fast post. Vaginal sex typically lasts 3 to 7 minutes according to a 2005 Society for Sex Therapy and Research Member Survey. That’s…
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Sexual restrictions

Good morning Dave, just yesterday morning Tuesday, my wife told me to only have sex with her once, meaning if I “cum” that ends it. I shouldn’t go beyond one because she can’t withstand it. The truth of the matter is that I hardly “cum”. She can have an orgasm…
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I want SEX!!

Please, how do I teach an unteachable spirit how to have sex with me? Dave, I’m suffering ooo, this man is so difficult to reason with. Why should I be denied of an orgasm? Why should my body not enjoy the pleasures of a man’s touch simply because my husband isn’t…
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Uncle with sex positions

Hello David, how are you? First and foremost, I think I might be overacting but I want to ask to be sure I am. My wife was raised by a man she calls her Uncle, though I later found out that they are not blood-related. He took care of her and her siblings when their parents…
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Premium BJ

Hello David, is blowjob a must give to the husband in marriage? Because I am not for the giving of that. When I was single, I used to give it to my exes. I used to love the whole idea of spoiling my man until he could barely stand it. With my husband, I am not enthusiastic…
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Unsatisfied women

Dave, I want to share something small about the issue of unsatisfied women. I have been married for five years. There are days I am stressed and my wife want sex and there are days I want it badly and my wife is not in the mood. These two circumstances can cause premature…
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Pleasurable Communication

I married a virgin at 31 years. I will one day tell my story of how we broke it and it didn’t happen on our wedding night or the next day. Thank God for patient men like my husband. We explored, we read and we practiced. Are we perfect? No, one day I almost dislocated my…
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Losing my wife to my ex

I keep a good record when it comes to me and my women. I do right by them, especially those I enter into serious relationship with. So I don’t understand my bad luck till date. I have been married twice and I was doing everything a man had to do to keep his woman. I…
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Sexy nuggets

Good afternoon Dave, I’d like to weigh in the ongoing talk about men ejaculating quickly during sex. I can see from the observers’ point that this issue is a concern for most of our women. Dave, I believe that it is high time for our women to start taking some…
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For better, for worse

If a lot of us married men were to voice out our experiences in marriage, you would be in utter shock for the rest of your life. I applaud the man who was married to his late wife for 16 years. The reason why I still find it very difficult to share my story with you is that…