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Under 5-minute men

Mr. David, good morning, I read a post from the man who says he can’t go beyond 2 minutes. I think my husband is between 4 to 5 minutes. It’s not only him because it just occurred to me that, the exes I had dated all couldn’t go beyond 5 to 6 minutes. I have dated an…
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Cheap commodity

Mr.David, I need your advice urgently. I am a good woman and my husband has been testifying to that to his friends and family. I fell in love with a charming stranger who later became my friend and now husband. The odd thing about my husband is he makes other people believe…
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Uncle with sex positions

Hello David, how are you? First and foremost, I think I might be overacting but I want to ask to be sure I am. My wife was raised by a man she calls her Uncle, though I later found out that they are not blood-related. He took care of her and her siblings when their parents…
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Cheated!

Hello Dave, I’m confused about something and I need your followers’ advice on it. I am currently married and my mother-in-law owns a restaurant and I’m a good cook myself so I mostly come up with ideas and menus for the place. Before I got married I used to do…
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Initiate sex!

Good day Dave, I want to make few remarks about your posts on sex. My one decade experience of sex with 5 Ghanaian women, and 2 European women can be summarized as follows. First of all, most of our women are boring and unexcited when it comes to the bedroom and one style…
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Teach your man to give you pleasure

Good afternoon Dave, I’d like to weigh in the ongoing talk about men ejaculating quickly during sex. I can see from the observers’ point that this issue is a concern for most of our women. Dave, I believe that it is high time for our women to start taking some…
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WIll I find another man?

Hello David I have been hesitating to speak with you about this. My fiancé has cheated on me not sexually but emotionally accompanied with lies. My pastors have encouraged me to stay in the relationship and we decided to work it out. I, however, found out that, he still…
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Paid for sex

I lied to my husband and made him believe I hadn’t known a lot of men. He thinks he’s the 2nd or 3rd guy in my life because that’s the impression I created for him to fall in love with me. He loves good girls so I have to be one to fit his criteria. But the…
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Set for doom!

Dearest David, I have just realized from observation that some marriages are set for doom even before the couple says ‘I do’. Yet the women go in hoping to change the narrative. It is not wrong for them to hope but all that I learnt in my short life has taught me…
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Pinned Down

“When you are married to a good woman, count yourself lucky, because there’s nothing else better than a wife who knows what she wants. Yes, your wife is strong-willed, ambitious and caring; brother, put some respect on her name. Because she’s going to fight…
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Me Too

“Until last year, I took my vows seriously. My husband and I promised not to sleep with other people. That was the mutual agreement our marriage was built on. Dave, I come from a home that did the best it could to teach me values. My husband expects me to give him what…
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Crisis Management

I hear that the Chinese people use two brush strokes to always write the word crisis. One brush stroke, I’m informed stands for danger; and the other signifying opportunity. So in other words, whenever you find yourself in crisis, be intentionally aware of the danger…
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The strength of man

“The beginning of love is the will to let those we love be perfectly themselves, the resolution not to twist them to fit our own image. If in loving them we do not love what they are, but only their potential likeness to ourselves, then we do not love them: we only love…
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It's all wrong but it's alright

Love is real and it can happen to all of us. However, if we are not discerning enough, an appearance can deceive us. A tone of voice can lead us astray. A sex act can confuse us. The heart of the human being can be insincere, and they can be so charming – even in their…
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Eyes-Right

What are your priorities when dating a married person? Do you think with your head or heart? Would it ever happen to you – for him or her to want to talk about his or her love for you, openly to the world? Would he or she be willing to want to walk in the sunshine with you…
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She knows

Yours may be also busily cheating on you. Are you going to be in denial or face the reality of it? Because to ignore gives him the go-ahead to pursue it further. To pretend as if you do not care or see his deeds equally concurs to him getting away with it. When is ever the…