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WIll I find another man?

Hello David I have been hesitating to speak with you about this. My fiancé has cheated on me not sexually but emotionally accompanied with lies. My pastors have encouraged me to stay in the relationship and we decided to work it out. I, however, found out that, he still…
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Paid for sex

I lied to my husband and made him believe I hadn’t known a lot of men. He thinks he’s the 2nd or 3rd guy in my life because that’s the impression I created for him to fall in love with me. He loves good girls so I have to be one to fit his criteria. But the…
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Set for doom!

Dearest David, I have just realized from observation that some marriages are set for doom even before the couple says ‘I do’. Yet the women go in hoping to change the narrative. It is not wrong for them to hope but all that I learnt in my short life has taught me…
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Pinned Down

“When you are married to a good woman, count yourself lucky, because there’s nothing else better than a wife who knows what she wants. Yes, your wife is strong-willed, ambitious and caring; brother, put some respect on her name. Because she’s going to fight…
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Me Too

“Until last year, I took my vows seriously. My husband and I promised not to sleep with other people. That was the mutual agreement our marriage was built on. Dave, I come from a home that did the best it could to teach me values. My husband expects me to give him what…
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Crisis Management

I hear that the Chinese people use two brush strokes to always write the word crisis. One brush stroke, I’m informed stands for danger; and the other signifying opportunity. So in other words, whenever you find yourself in crisis, be intentionally aware of the danger…
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The strength of man

“The beginning of love is the will to let those we love be perfectly themselves, the resolution not to twist them to fit our own image. If in loving them we do not love what they are, but only their potential likeness to ourselves, then we do not love them: we only love…
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It's all wrong but it's alright

Love is real and it can happen to all of us. However, if we are not discerning enough, an appearance can deceive us. A tone of voice can lead us astray. A sex act can confuse us. The heart of the human being can be insincere, and they can be so charming – even in their…
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Eyes-Right

What are your priorities when dating a married person? Do you think with your head or heart? Would it ever happen to you – for him or her to want to talk about his or her love for you, openly to the world? Would he or she be willing to want to walk in the sunshine with you…
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She knows

Yours may be also busily cheating on you. Are you going to be in denial or face the reality of it? Because to ignore gives him the go-ahead to pursue it further. To pretend as if you do not care or see his deeds equally concurs to him getting away with it. When is ever the…
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Chips

What is your bigger picture mentally – when you look at the man or woman that you love? Do you sweat over small stuffs when it comes to him or her? How attentive are you to everything happening around you? Would you know if your spouse changed? Would you change back on…
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Cy

Is there a difference between falling in love and being in love? Because Nana Yaw, fell into something that seemed to have no floor. It was great and exhilarating, and at the same time, a teensy bit scary. He was never really anxious about getting hurt by her when they…
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Unfaithful

Do you know what your significant other is thinking? How about the other way round: that feeling of not knowing what your partner could be thinking about? I know it’s impossible to know exactly what the other person is thinking without them telling you, but could one rely…
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A-Spot

She’s realized her marriage has changed. Question is, how easy or difficult is it for a spouse to accept a reality and choose whether or not to move on with life? Are you having suspicions of any sort yourself also? Have you taken notice of how he or she looks at people of…
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I mean well

Is a man selfish if he’s involved with more than one woman at the same time? Is such a man greedy, and a liar, with no consideration for the feelings of the other parties? Can a man fall in love with more than just one woman and be allowed to love them both accordingly?
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The perfect distraction

One statement I have never stopped making to friends is, “Everything is going to be alright.” A lot of the time, I do not really know whether I believe in these words, however, I keep saying it to people and myself anyways. Not everything would have to happen for a…