#InboxMessages

Too much power, too much control

Dear David We met at the market Saturday morning. How are you doing sir? I was about to send you a message and I realized you had already posted about our encounter. It was really nice meeting you personally and though I could see you were very busy shopping with your…
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He's back BUT with a vasectomy

Good day Dave. Please hide my identity. I fell in love with a fellow classmate when we were teenagers. We dated when I was 18 and he was 19, so that means we were done with secondary school. Life took me to the university while he furthered his…
#InboxMessages

Can't single mothers have it all?

Dave, I am now a single mum due to the lie of a man. I got to know he was married and backed off. Dave, my son is now three years and by the grace of God we don’t lack anything though his dad refused to be responsible. He has the means but won’t do it, just…
#InboxMessages

Help me apologize to him

Hi Dave, I’m a silent member on your page and I’ve learnt a lot from both stories and comments. Please I have an issue and I will need the advice from your noble audience. I’m currently staying with my guy with whom I have 2 kids with. We were not on good terms for…
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Yaw

This is a man who has been through different experiences in his life and does not allow those experiences to limit or define him. The lessons learned from his past humbles him rather than him dwell on the insecurities or in the fears of those experiences. Yaw looks at life…
#TheSurvey

Rough Road

She’s been trying to have a baby with her husband for years but it’s just not happening. Then her husband finds out for the first time about her abortion history. Would you be upset by the knowledge of your wife’s disturbing past? Say, she slept with four men in three…
#MyStory

I want to go Home

“I have never met anyone empathetic and understanding as my wife. We talk about everything, anything. She respects me and I am so proud of her. She does not manipulate me emotionally, she doesn’t give me the silent treatment anymore. She feeds me good meals. She’s…
#MyTurn

A better compensation

Early this year, I got three very interesting inbox messages which I titled ‘Uncle Daddy’. Many of us were left amazed, whispering the sweet ‘’Oohs’ and ‘Ahhs’ after reading their beautiful stories. Well, another one just dropped in my inbox. 😊. Yep! So are…
#TheProposal

Cy

Is there a difference between falling in love and being in love? Because Nana Yaw, fell into something that seemed to have no floor. It was great and exhilarating, and at the same time, a teensy bit scary. He was never really anxious about getting hurt by her when they…
#MyChatWithHim

Tundra

What features did you look for in your wife before settling on her? How important were those to you? Does a feature that a man wants in a woman make her any less of a woman if she lacks it? Does a man’s idea of an attractive lady makes the woman look any healthier or…
#MyChatWithHim

Ma forte tour

He did not have to hide his true self from his wife and put on a front in order to be what he thought she wanted in a man. She did not make him feel embarrassed for having flaws. She gave him enough room to share himself, and also be vulnerable and feel safe doing so…
#MyChatWithHer

Unsure

Honestly, do you take a second look at that attractive lady or gentleman who passed you on the street? Or the one pumping iron at the gym, how do you find him? Does being married necessarily mean your eyes build blinders to attractive people? Is looking and admiring others…
#MyChatWithHer

Could this be real?

When you meet someone you least expected to meet, and get to like them even under the weirdest of circumstances: When you fall in love with them and get to share the treasured emotion of loving and being loved back, the feeling is fulfilling. The best of it all is when they…
#MyChatWithHim

I mean well

Is a man selfish if he’s involved with more than one woman at the same time? Is such a man greedy, and a liar, with no consideration for the feelings of the other parties? Can a man fall in love with more than just one woman and be allowed to love them both accordingly?
#TheProposal

Settled Score

Most of us often look for that man or woman to complete us – when we are considering a new relationship. That man or woman we can imagine sharing our lives with. That’s why a good number of us would rather present ourselves in our best possible light for our imagined…
#TheProposal

And then, I saw her!

As Priebe wrote, “The right people are timeless. The right people make you want to throw away the plans you originally had for one and follow them into the hazy, unknown future without a glance backwards. The right people don’t make you hmm and haw about whether or not…