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Excuses for poor performance?

Ah, I don’t get it when men try to give excuses for why they don’t last. My favourite is “sex is not like it is in movies, five minutes is okay” bla bla bla. Hw3, brother “sa wo ho yale3” and stop giving excuses or find different strategy. Kwata kwata, 3…
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Cheap commodity

Mr.David, I need your advice urgently. I am a good woman and my husband has been testifying to that to his friends and family. I fell in love with a charming stranger who later became my friend and now husband. The odd thing about my husband is he makes other people believe…
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Battle of trust

Mr. David hello, Let me go straight to the point. Some time ago, my husband came home and out of the blue, mentioned the name of a friend of mine that I have known for 18 years. He was speaking ill of her and was indirectly suggesting that I ended my friendship with her.
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I want SEX!!

Please, how do I teach an unteachable spirit how to have sex with me? Dave, I’m suffering ooo, this man is so difficult to reason with. Why should I be denied of an orgasm? Why should my body not enjoy the pleasures of a man’s touch simply because my husband isn’t…
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Uncle with sex positions

Hello David, how are you? First and foremost, I think I might be overacting but I want to ask to be sure I am. My wife was raised by a man she calls her Uncle, though I later found out that they are not blood-related. He took care of her and her siblings when their parents…
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Unsatisfied women

Dave, I want to share something small about the issue of unsatisfied women. I have been married for five years. There are days I am stressed and my wife want sex and there are days I want it badly and my wife is not in the mood. These two circumstances can cause premature…
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Sexy nuggets

Good afternoon Dave, I’d like to weigh in the ongoing talk about men ejaculating quickly during sex. I can see from the observers’ point that this issue is a concern for most of our women. Dave, I believe that it is high time for our women to start taking some…
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Letting him go

4 years ago I got pregnant for my husband. He was preparing to marry the love of his life. He hasn’t wedded me as his official woman; however he has presented drinks with his family to ask for my hand in marriage. That was done three years ago before I gave birth to our…
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For better, for worse

If a lot of us married men were to voice out our experiences in marriage, you would be in utter shock for the rest of your life. I applaud the man who was married to his late wife for 16 years. The reason why I still find it very difficult to share my story with you is that…
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She's lazy

I think my wife is lazy or I could be enabling her to be doing so. See, when we met I was amazed a beautiful girl like her could be interested in a guy like me. She is very pretty and way out of my league. I used to tell her she wouldn’t lift a finger to do anything at…
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In love with my father's daughter

I am head pastor of our founder’s church. A very thriving family in the Gospel business and I loves my church. I love and respect our Founder and Presiding Bishop so much because I believe he mentored me well. I am great in this calling because I availed myself to serve…
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Too much power, too much control

Dear David We met at the market Saturday morning. How are you doing sir? I was about to send you a message and I realized you had already posted about our encounter. It was really nice meeting you personally and though I could see you were very busy shopping with your…
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He's back BUT with a vasectomy

Good day Dave. Please hide my identity. I fell in love with a fellow classmate when we were teenagers. We dated when I was 18 and he was 19, so that means we were done with secondary school. Life took me to the university while he furthered his…
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Can't single mothers have it all?

Dave, I am now a single mum due to the lie of a man. I got to know he was married and backed off. Dave, my son is now three years and by the grace of God we don’t lack anything though his dad refused to be responsible. He has the means but won’t do it, just…
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Help me apologize to him

Hi Dave, I’m a silent member on your page and I’ve learnt a lot from both stories and comments. Please I have an issue and I will need the advice from your noble audience. I’m currently staying with my guy with whom I have 2 kids with. We were not on good terms for…
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Yaw

This is a man who has been through different experiences in his life and does not allow those experiences to limit or define him. The lessons learned from his past humbles him rather than him dwell on the insecurities or in the fears of those experiences. Yaw looks at life…