#InboxMessages

Letting him go

4 years ago I got pregnant for my husband. He was preparing to marry the love of his life. He hasn’t wedded me as his official woman; however he has presented drinks with his family to ask for my hand in marriage. That was done three years ago before I gave birth to our…
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Girlfriend or Sister

Dave, my husband has saved a girl’s name with his sister’s name for quite some time now. All along, I thought it was his sister but guess what happened this evening; he travelled and came back very tired so he has been sleeping since he arrived. I got to the room only…
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I am not stupid

Dearest Dave, I commend you for the good work you do to support people with relationship issues. Kindly make me anonymous. My husband and I have been married for almost two years and we have a 10-month-old baby and pregnant with the second child. When I noticed I was…
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By 23

“Whenever you wake to push-open your curtains in the mornings, you have a choice to make. And these choices may or not define us, be it major or minor. These choices we make affect change. Question now is, would ‘the future’ you be proud of ‘the present’ you…
#MyStory

Having My Babies

You’ve been happily married for a while now and you had been trying to conceive without any luck. Your tests turned up relatively normal and you were being told that you should be able to conceive, yet you seemed to be failing. Then you got introduced to intrauterine…
#TheProposal

'Bright' My Ludu

What was meant for her reached her, even though he was beneath two women. What isn’t meant for you wouldn’t reach you, even if it is between your two lips. There really is that man or woman out there somewhere you’re about to meet someday. And he or she is heading your…
#MyChatWithHim

The boy is mine

Ever been torn between two very important decisions to make? Where you felt you were really that unsure about what to or not do? Can a man have that much clarity in a complication? What is that thing always underneath the mess of confusing thoughts that sometimes, dances on…
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He saw, he shook, but stood

He came to love not by finding the ‘ideal’ woman figure, but rather saw the person in the woman he enjoyed talking to. He saw the difference, and he saw it clearly. But he chose her anyways. He was in love and the love had cleared his eyes. He sees his wife for the woman…
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Pregnant Virgin

He made a conscious effort never to judge her past because he could understand her pain. He could not change what had happened to her, but could change his outlook, thus, his reason for wanting to know her better. Whatever his wife’s history spelt was what has made her who…