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Survey: Why I got married

I read this inbox message on my Facebook earlier this week: “I agreed to marry my husband because he made me believe he could take very good care of me. And I needed just that: A man who could take care of me. I don’t love him. My child is not even his and he doesn’t…
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He saw, he shook, but stood

He came to love not by finding the ‘ideal’ woman figure, but rather saw the person in the woman he enjoyed talking to. He saw the difference, and he saw it clearly. But he chose her anyways. He was in love and the love had cleared his eyes. He sees his wife for the woman…
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Just the two of us

Her love is good, mature and healthy. Her love for her husband is not being or a feeling. Her love is not motivated or inspired or the being swept away kind. Neither is she overwhelmed. To her, love is an act, an intentional decision she took. A very deliberate effort to…
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The Click

His primary consideration is for himself though he’s just not realizing it. That’s why he can easily lie and keep this secret from his wife without any remorse or regret, because it’s getting him what he wants. It’s being said a lot of the time that, guys naturally…
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For the long haul

Allowing the heart to fall in love can be the best decision ever made or the worst. The whole process of being vulnerable and feeling that much in need of someone’s fidelity can be scary sometimes. Especially after giving them your all, and then later finding out they…
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She inspires the better version of me

His love for his wife is real; the real type that raises his vibration. Normally, a man wouldn’t walk around at a high level of awareness, but his wife triggers that in him because she’s right for him. He’s become a better version of himself. True love is that…
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Pregnant Virgin

He made a conscious effort never to judge her past because he could understand her pain. He could not change what had happened to her, but could change his outlook, thus, his reason for wanting to know her better. Whatever his wife’s history spelt was what has made her who…
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My wife and girlfriend are both pregnant

Life will always present us with different choices and reasons to either have to make them or not. And a lot of the time, we may deem it right to take certain actions – because they look right in our thoughts. Difficult as some choices may be, we make them anyways. He made…
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Her way to my heart

Her smile got his attention, given! But his eyes were opened after eating her Rice and Mushroom Stew. Love will locate you, regardless your age. Just know that, you are not too old to love and be loved back. Oh, and all the good men and women are not taken. There are some…
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The man after my own heart

She had a life of her own, however, once in love, it became hard for her to remember how she managed to live without him. Of course, she was alive before she met her husband, but she is beginning to think she really did not start ‘living’ until she met her…
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The Target!

These two became the best of friends under the most awkward circumstances ever, and nothing has been so far better than them staying in touch, in like and in love as best friends… He adores this woman, the woman he calls ‘His wife’. Their love is deep, very…
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I was only going to buy fresh fish

He only wanted to eat fresh fish, and he went to the market to buy just that. But love seemed to have come along and bumped into him. He was open to change, and he grasped the opportunity, because it is never too late to want to love and be loved back. Anyone is deserving of…
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Man was HOT

He didn’t know what he wanted at first. But then, the 10th phone number got him thinking: would it be a bad idea for him to pursue whoever owned that new number? Would it be a bad idea for him to be seeking validation, cuddling, sex, friendship and attention from whomever…
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Beautiful Nonsense

He was the neighbor who was constantly using her towel anytime she was away from home. Weird, right? Yeah! And she intentionally chose to act like she was blind. She would act like she was deaf, just not to overreact. When she caught him using her towel finally, she did not…
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He wakes at dawn to chat her

“Dave, something is not right in my marriage. My husband has been waking up most dawns – to chat with another woman. I recently found that out, but I had been missing his absence in bed anytime I woke to urinate at dawn. He is not sleeping with the woman, but he…
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He’s been FAITHFUL for 9 years

Though young, he has seen a lot, been through a lot, found his way through a lot, and has become better. His experiences in life has neither limited nor defined him. From his past, he’s picked relevant lessons that has humbled him as a man. His outlook on life right now is…