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Deliberate faithfulness

Dear David Bondze-Mbir, I am smiling to myself because I am also sending you my story. I have been married for 16 years and all through the years, I have been faithful. I haven’t been always this decent. I used to know what was up. I lived it many times before meeting my…
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Everything has changed

Mr. David Bondze-Mbir, Happy New year. First time in your inbox with my story. I want to share with you because so far, I am enjoying your timeline. My ex-wife introduced me to my wife. I used to be married to a medical doctor. I messed things up between us by cheating. A…
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Unnecessary jealousy

Hi Dave, please conceal my identity. I’m a broadcaster and married with a child.My wife is kind, loving and hardworking. She is really content with what we have and she doesn’t compare herself to her peers. She is a graduate but not formally employed. She does her…
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Sexually Employed

I started documenting some unusual changes in my husband. The first for me was the lots of new styles and things he introduced in our sex life. I do not mind adventure in sex but this sudden need to try these new things with me in the bedroom, things that were never our…
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Postpartum depression

Hello Dave, hope you are doing well. I’m one of your silent followers. Your page has taught me a lot. I never thought I will one day contact you with a problem. Well, here I am and sorry if I write you a book. Dave, I am beginning to “hate” my husband and I hate…
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Split the bills?

Hello Dave, hope this text finds you well. Can you please ask your audience especially the married, how they run their home financially, like payment of bills, school fees and food. Whether it’s a 50/50 partnership, 70/30 or the man carries all the financial burden of…
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Cheap commodity

Mr.David, I need your advice urgently. I am a good woman and my husband has been testifying to that to his friends and family. I fell in love with a charming stranger who later became my friend and now husband. The odd thing about my husband is he makes other people believe…
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Sexual gratification

Good morning David, trust all is good. I have been reading about ladies complaining about how unsatisfied they are with their husbands in the bedroom because they don’t last. From personal experience, a lot of factors contribute to that. First of all, is everything…
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Keep the good for yourself

Mr Bondze Mbir, you are doing a great job with your Facebook that is why I want to share a segment of my love life with you. I have been following your account for 5 months and you have grown on me and my wife. I come from a good family. I haven’t lacked anything because…
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Sex marathon before divorce

You are making me remember things, David Bondze-Mbir. And it ain’t funny. I went to work one Friday, wearing a short skirt with no panties on, the morning after I had found out my husband was meeting his side chick at a hotel to spend the weekend. He told me he had an…
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Battle of trust

Mr. David hello, Let me go straight to the point. Some time ago, my husband came home and out of the blue, mentioned the name of a friend of mine that I have known for 18 years. He was speaking ill of her and was indirectly suggesting that I ended my friendship with her.
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Sexual restrictions

Good morning Dave, just yesterday morning Tuesday, my wife told me to only have sex with her once, meaning if I “cum” that ends it. I shouldn’t go beyond one because she can’t withstand it. The truth of the matter is that I hardly “cum”. She can have an orgasm…
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I want SEX!!

Please, how do I teach an unteachable spirit how to have sex with me? Dave, I’m suffering ooo, this man is so difficult to reason with. Why should I be denied of an orgasm? Why should my body not enjoy the pleasures of a man’s touch simply because my husband isn’t…
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GHC7000 house husband?

Hi David, I need you to just tell me what you think of what I am about to say. I earn more than my husband. In fact, 10 times more than what he brings home at the end of the month. I enjoy being his wife to the extent that, though I should be the one with a busy schedule and…
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Unsatisfied women

Dave, I want to share something small about the issue of unsatisfied women. I have been married for five years. There are days I am stressed and my wife want sex and there are days I want it badly and my wife is not in the mood. These two circumstances can cause premature…
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Losing my wife to my ex

I keep a good record when it comes to me and my women. I do right by them, especially those I enter into serious relationship with. So I don’t understand my bad luck till date. I have been married twice and I was doing everything a man had to do to keep his woman. I…