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Her boyfriend wants to marry me

Hello Dave, How are you doing? I want your opinion on an issue. My mother has been telling me about her boyfriend. I know my mother, and I know she is in love with him. I was happy for her because she had given up so much for my sake. Every money she got, she…
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Am I wasting my time?

Dear Dave, I don’t know if I am the only one thinking it, but sometimes I feel my husband bad mouths me to people he wants to please. I don’t know why I have this feeling. He talks about me and it is not always good stuff, especially to ladies he feels may support his…
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Mr. T

“I’ve seen the Black Stars of Ghana train for the World Cup, but have never won. Making the decision to want to commit to my wife in this marriage never guaranteed my faithfulness, which happens to be her ultimate expectation of me. I wasn’t sure I could meet those…
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Tired of being tired

“He’s never said ‘I love you’ to me before but he sends me GHs 3000 every month, for 9 months now, to take care of myself. I have a special account for that bonus money, and I keep it hidden from all my transactions, so my husband accidentally, does not see it. I…
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Stabbed

“Dave, it’s been seven months and I am still sex starving. I have gotten to the point where I have psyched myself not to think of sex to even think of engaging in the act. This strategy of mine is now working as I don’t get the urge for sex any longer…
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Loaned Out

“He is a good guy, and the type that would do anything for me and our children. When I was battling cancer, he nursed me through it, took loans from banks just to ensure I got the treatment I needed. He stood by the kids when I couldn’t be there for them at home. He…
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Kɔtse dur

“Good morning Mr. David Bondze-Mbir. I pray you see this post . We need help and kindly keep me anonymous . Kindly let your followers help us if they could. My husband and I (we both early 30’s) are facing something serious. We married for five years now with two…
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Me Too

“Until last year, I took my vows seriously. My husband and I promised not to sleep with other people. That was the mutual agreement our marriage was built on. Dave, I come from a home that did the best it could to teach me values. My husband expects me to give him what…
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All good

Should the spouse always come first (as in, become a priority) before there are even children blessed to the marriage? Without a strong marriage, and a seemingly, loving home, can the whole idea of children thrive? Are spouses of today, only concerned about their need to get…
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Just It

“She may not have been the preferred type to excite my vision as a man, but she’s become the love of my life over the years due to what we both have created and committed to. She’s not perfect but she’s my best decision yet. I am happy with my decision. I am not…
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Deliberate Love

“Thank you for walking out on your ex. Thank you for being my friend. Thank you for being my girlfriend. Thank you for being my wife. Thank you for being the mother of our children. Thank you for the beautiful meals you cook for me every day. Thank you for the great…
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My Lady, My Woman

“I think my wife is realizing she’s either a lesbian or bisexual. She says she’s attracted to women, and that she’s telling me right now because her feelings for her girlfriend isn’t going away. In other words, she’s been sexual with another woman while…
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Blue Blouse

“I am not comparing the way I loved my late wife, after all those years we spent together creating beautiful memories and also, being there for each other through the good times and the bad, but this woman I have been married to for 20 years – has something else that…
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Stay Woke

“I sometimes hate making tough decisions. The fear of picking the wrong options oftentimes leaves me confused and nothing gets done, and if it’s an important issue I am concerned about, then the problem ends up growing bigger and bigger.” &#8211…
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Talk To The Body

“I am able to deeply connect with my woman, and she knows she’s fully seen and appreciated by me. I am very secure in my relationship with my wife. She pushes me every day to reach my potential. That’s how I know I am loved. I make time to listen to her, and also…
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Hints

“I gave my husband a hug and told him how much I love him, and he smiled and looked at me with that look of, ‘oh!’ He asked me “but why?” I said nothing. I smiled back warmly, and then went to my car to drive to work.  I am writing from a heart that is almost…