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Deliberate faithfulness

Dear David Bondze-Mbir, I am smiling to myself because I am also sending you my story. I have been married for 16 years and all through the years, I have been faithful. I haven’t been always this decent. I used to know what was up. I lived it many times before meeting my…
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Everything has changed

Mr. David Bondze-Mbir, Happy New year. First time in your inbox with my story. I want to share with you because so far, I am enjoying your timeline. My ex-wife introduced me to my wife. I used to be married to a medical doctor. I messed things up between us by cheating. A…
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Postpartum depression

Hello Dave, hope you are doing well. I’m one of your silent followers. Your page has taught me a lot. I never thought I will one day contact you with a problem. Well, here I am and sorry if I write you a book. Dave, I am beginning to “hate” my husband and I hate…
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Excuses for poor performance?

Ah, I don’t get it when men try to give excuses for why they don’t last. My favourite is “sex is not like it is in movies, five minutes is okay” bla bla bla. Hw3, brother “sa wo ho yale3” and stop giving excuses or find different strategy. Kwata kwata, 3…
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Sexual gratification

Good morning David, trust all is good. I have been reading about ladies complaining about how unsatisfied they are with their husbands in the bedroom because they don’t last. From personal experience, a lot of factors contribute to that. First of all, is everything…
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Keep the good for yourself

Mr Bondze Mbir, you are doing a great job with your Facebook that is why I want to share a segment of my love life with you. I have been following your account for 5 months and you have grown on me and my wife. I come from a good family. I haven’t lacked anything because…
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Sex marathon before divorce

You are making me remember things, David Bondze-Mbir. And it ain’t funny. I went to work one Friday, wearing a short skirt with no panties on, the morning after I had found out my husband was meeting his side chick at a hotel to spend the weekend. He told me he had an…
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I am not jealous

Hello Dave, hope you are doing well. I have a challenge which I hope you or your numerous followers can help me with. From way back, I know the primary responsibility of a man is to take care of the home financially by providing everything the family needs. Fulfilling that…
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Sexual restrictions

Good morning Dave, just yesterday morning Tuesday, my wife told me to only have sex with her once, meaning if I “cum” that ends it. I shouldn’t go beyond one because she can’t withstand it. The truth of the matter is that I hardly “cum”. She can have an orgasm…
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Unsatisfied women

Dave, I want to share something small about the issue of unsatisfied women. I have been married for five years. There are days I am stressed and my wife want sex and there are days I want it badly and my wife is not in the mood. These two circumstances can cause premature…
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Pleasurable Communication

I married a virgin at 31 years. I will one day tell my story of how we broke it and it didn’t happen on our wedding night or the next day. Thank God for patient men like my husband. We explored, we read and we practiced. Are we perfect? No, one day I almost dislocated my…
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Losing my wife to my ex

I keep a good record when it comes to me and my women. I do right by them, especially those I enter into serious relationship with. So I don’t understand my bad luck till date. I have been married twice and I was doing everything a man had to do to keep his woman. I…
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Letting him go

4 years ago I got pregnant for my husband. He was preparing to marry the love of his life. He hasn’t wedded me as his official woman; however he has presented drinks with his family to ask for my hand in marriage. That was done three years ago before I gave birth to our…
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Well deserved selfishness

I was in a good marriage and I knew my husband. I know how he acts when he is mad, sad or excited or happy. I know when he is angry, stressed or tired. I always see it when he is bored or even hungry. I know my man. But when he started to act out of character, which I doubt…
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Sent from above

I used to have this Nissan Altima in the 90s which was given to me by my mother before she died. That was the car I was living in 14 years ago before I met my wife. Dave, you didn’t read wrong. I lived in my car for 11 months and 9 days in 2006. I paid some landlords to…
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In love with my father's daughter

I am head pastor of our founder’s church. A very thriving family in the Gospel business and I loves my church. I love and respect our Founder and Presiding Bishop so much because I believe he mentored me well. I am great in this calling because I availed myself to serve…