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Sexual gratification

Good morning David, trust all is good. I have been reading about ladies complaining about how unsatisfied they are with their husbands in the bedroom because they don’t last. From personal experience, a lot of factors contribute to that. First of all, is everything…
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Sex marathon before divorce

You are making me remember things, David Bondze-Mbir. And it ain’t funny. I went to work one Friday, wearing a short skirt with no panties on, the morning after I had found out my husband was meeting his side chick at a hotel to spend the weekend. He told me he had an…
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She's lazy

I think my wife is lazy or I could be enabling her to be doing so. See, when we met I was amazed a beautiful girl like her could be interested in a guy like me. She is very pretty and way out of my league. I used to tell her she wouldn’t lift a finger to do anything at…
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By 23

“Whenever you wake to push-open your curtains in the mornings, you have a choice to make. And these choices may or not define us, be it major or minor. These choices we make affect change. Question now is, would ‘the future’ you be proud of ‘the present’ you…
Music

Everything But Ordinary

“I have not made it to the mainstream yet, but I have this to say… In this lifetime there is always going to come a phase you’d have to be the ONLY person present in your own life to believe in YOU. You’d have to be the one to work on yourself, not what…
Inspiration

For You

I know a lot of you do not see your breakups coming. To you, everything was going great or could have gone great. When someone you love/d does not want to be in your life, please let them be. Do not force them, directly or indirectly to remain with you if they want out. Do…
#MyChatWithHer

Crisis Management

I hear that the Chinese people use two brush strokes to always write the word crisis. One brush stroke, I’m informed stands for danger; and the other signifying opportunity. So in other words, whenever you find yourself in crisis, be intentionally aware of the danger…
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In-waiting

It always starts with that simple text or phone call, trying to check on them. In your mind, you two are just in the ‘platonics’, nothing really serious going on. But then, flashes of them comes to mind spasmodically, sometimes even when you’re not thinking about them.
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The Chancer

If the one you love has this consistent habit of always wanting to accuse you of behaviors they themselves know, and you damn know as well – they are exhibiting, what would that mean to you? When the man or woman you love, someway, somehow, just seems or is pretending to…
#TheProposal

A part of me

Her husband loved the challenge. She was a complicated idea to fathom, an idea most men would have easily dropped by the roadside. But not her husband. He was willing to go that far for her, to know all there was to know about her… She was that secret he was dying to…
Everyday People

Caroline

“Tough times don’t last, but tough people do. And I’ve been through some tough times, and I know a lot of people can recall tough times, and maybe are going through some tough times right now, but they don’t last.” — Alonzo Mourning #EverydayPeople “I…
Everyday People

Kwaku

He lived his life in a continual struggle. I think he still does, except, maybe now, he is choosing to see and appreciate the splendor that could come out of this art of struggling. He chose to become more than just what life threw at him. He did more. He found available…
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Ike

How do the tough get going when the going gets tough? Well, he chose to hold his head up, stuck his chest out and found his inner strength to push ahead. Who could have known he was stronger than he knew of himself? His general overview of life were positive, regardless. And…
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Fati

Ever been in that situation that you felt challenged, so much so to want to give up on you? Ever experienced that storm that you wished had not come your way? Is the unimaginable pain felt during these hardships just a phase in our lives or it is to prepare us towards a…
Everyday People

Mamudu

Life isn’t easy. We all know that. Some face their problems. Others endure the obstacles. The challenges many face are numerous. There are setbacks on the way. However, the difference between Mamudu and the others is his ability to face his challenges correctly and not the…
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Akua

Life can be a continuous bombardment of so many things coming at us, nearby us and past us. And a lot of the time, what these attacks can leave us is an imprint that everything is that impossible or just difficult to pursue. Akua did more than she could imagine. There is a…