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God will see you through

I have never written to you on any issue though I have been a follower for a long time. Hmmm, I don’t even think I am at the perfect stage in life to write this message to you. I hope that I don’t find myself deleting this post before I send it. I always see people write…
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Is she a lesbian?

Hello Dave, I found out my girlfriend of two years has a thing for tomboys. She got insanely close to a tomboy in her house and got increasing familiar .she follows bisexual ladies and lesbians on her social media. I suspected her and asked her if she…
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He was nobody's type

Mr. Dave, at what point does a woman stop forgiving her husband’s sins. Because I think I am tired, I am tired of being the one to make our marriage work. I am tired of trying to keep the home together. I am tired of trying because there are children involved, I…
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WIll I find another man?

Hello David I have been hesitating to speak with you about this. My fiancé has cheated on me not sexually but emotionally accompanied with lies. My pastors have encouraged me to stay in the relationship and we decided to work it out. I, however, found out that, he still…
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Married to men who don't deserve us

Sometimes people think the stories are not true. I was a very outgoing free-spirited ambitious lady until I met my former husband years ago. Everything was a little ok even though I saw some of the signs before we got married. This man will go to the toilet and refuse to…
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Focus!

Sometimes, we men forget what’s important in life especially when we have been in a relationship for a long time. I always felt like my wife nagged too much about everything and wanted too much from me, that nothing I did was ever right. She used to complain about not…
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Me Too

“Until last year, I took my vows seriously. My husband and I promised not to sleep with other people. That was the mutual agreement our marriage was built on. Dave, I come from a home that did the best it could to teach me values. My husband expects me to give him what…
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Crisis Management

I hear that the Chinese people use two brush strokes to always write the word crisis. One brush stroke, I’m informed stands for danger; and the other signifying opportunity. So in other words, whenever you find yourself in crisis, be intentionally aware of the danger…
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Oye

She found herself in a position I doubt would have known what to do – if I were to be in her shoes. Do we take our relationships for granted sometimes, even if we kind of, don’t intend to? Because, she had a happy relationship and marriage, and a man, the ‘right’…
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Off-Scent

A week and some days ago, I met with one of the BEAUTIFUL human beings I have ever seen my entire life. She’s a 41 years old mother of two. Truthfully speaking, she did not look anything close to 18 years mpo. I saw the true definition of beauty. She made me appreciate the…
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A-Spot

She’s realized her marriage has changed. Question is, how easy or difficult is it for a spouse to accept a reality and choose whether or not to move on with life? Are you having suspicions of any sort yourself also? Have you taken notice of how he or she looks at people of…
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The Click

His primary consideration is for himself though he’s just not realizing it. That’s why he can easily lie and keep this secret from his wife without any remorse or regret, because it’s getting him what he wants. It’s being said a lot of the time that, guys naturally…
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My wife and girlfriend are both pregnant

Life will always present us with different choices and reasons to either have to make them or not. And a lot of the time, we may deem it right to take certain actions – because they look right in our thoughts. Difficult as some choices may be, we make them anyways. He made…
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He wakes at dawn to chat her

“Dave, something is not right in my marriage. My husband has been waking up most dawns – to chat with another woman. I recently found that out, but I had been missing his absence in bed anytime I woke to urinate at dawn. He is not sleeping with the woman, but he…
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Dirty on the outside, clean inside

Ordinarily, when you make up your mind to want to settle in a marriage with someone, the last thing you probably would think about is whether or not you’re going to fall out of it. He started his journey from the end. He never really laughed or enjoyed being around her…
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Being his legal wife helps should he die

Marriage as we all know is work. Work is difficult enough as it is without adding poverty to the mix. She likes him now, and is even thinking he completes her in many ways. Should money be a factor in a woman’s decision to pursuing a lifelong commitment with a guy? Can…