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Blinded by love

Hi Dave, I have an issue and being somewhat an introvert, I have no one to help out with an advice. I have been in a relationship for close to 6 years and I feel I’m either overreacting or things aren’t going well. For starter, most of the things I love doing have been…
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Crawling

Hello David, this is the first time I have had to come out on this rather sensitive issue that robbed me of my confidence growing up. Today I’m still battling it but I’m also fighting very hard to go past it. Growing up, my dad used to be verbally abusive with my…
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Married to men who don't deserve us

Sometimes people think the stories are not true. I was a very outgoing free-spirited ambitious lady until I met my former husband years ago. Everything was a little ok even though I saw some of the signs before we got married. This man will go to the toilet and refuse to…
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Pause!

Hello David, Please hide my identity. I am not ashamed of my story, but for the simple reason that I am yet to confront my mother and some siblings to aid my healing process. Talking about the business of stolen voices, this is mine. It was my mother who tore me down and…
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Help me apologize to him

Hi Dave, I’m a silent member on your page and I’ve learnt a lot from both stories and comments. Please I have an issue and I will need the advice from your noble audience. I’m currently staying with my guy with whom I have 2 kids with. We were not on good terms for…
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He's Close

“Everyone suffers at least one bad betrayal in their lifetime. It’s what unites us. The trick is not to let it destroy your trust in others when that happens. Don’t let them take that from you.” ― Sherrilyn Kenyon “My dad left the country when I was 9 years…
#MyStory

Hurt people hurt people

When the body, mind, emotion and spirit of a mother is affected by grief – this could be one of the possible reactions she’d have in response to the death or loss of a child. Can a woman get over grief by forgetting about her child that died, and whoever might…
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Something To Remember Me By

“I want to hurt my husband. Already, I have been feeding him with the excreta from my body. I mix my urine with water to boil his rice. I add my phlegm’s to his soup. I use part of my feces in preparing his stew. Curry always takes out the bad smell. He’s hurt me…
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30 years later...

She hasn’t been able to heal the resulting feelings of abandonment. And due to this she’s still emotionally stuck at the age of her earliest wounds. This is causing her to repeat her past experiences of suffering and anger and hurt and unforgiveness. She’s back to the…
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She knows

Yours may be also busily cheating on you. Are you going to be in denial or face the reality of it? Because to ignore gives him the go-ahead to pursue it further. To pretend as if you do not care or see his deeds equally concurs to him getting away with it. When is ever the…
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Iron man does smile

“Sometimes the most scenic roads in life are the detours you didn’t mean to take.” ― Angela N. Blount What would be your first reaction when a total stranger dies in your car? What would you do? Whom would you talk to first? What would be going through your…