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HIV Mystery

December 3, 2020
I am not here to blame anyone. I am just trying to be realistic here. I am seeing this girl that I love. We have been together for more than a year. Even though I am in love with her, I make sure we always use condoms during sex. Cunnilingus is one thing I enjoy with my…
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Blinded by love

November 29, 2020
Hi Dave, I have an issue and being somewhat an introvert, I have no one to help out with an advice. I have been in a relationship for close to 6 years and I feel I’m either overreacting or things aren’t going well. For starter, most of the things I love doing have been…
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Future other woman

November 26, 2020
I would want to believe I’m in a very good marriage because I do not see my wife feeling or thinking about not being cared for or not wanted. I make sure we send quality time together and I am intentional with this in many ways. I can put aside four whole evenings in a…
#MyStory

Save me from myself

August 3, 2020
“I have also embraced my role as her protector, in other worse, I have no plans to deliberately, or ever wound her. She deserves better. I will no longer let my children down, just for the sake of their mothers; I will be better and raise them to be better men.
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Revelations 4 verse 2

April 11, 2020
“At that point, there was nothing I could do as their friend. I needed to wait for that moment she would come to terms with the fact that, her husband had made a choice, and it wasn’t her. I needed to wait for that moment she would make the hardest decision to let go…
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Just saying

August 10, 2019
He’s been struggling with this problem for years. The self-doubt and self-loathing, the state of hopelessness and fear. Every day in a relationship was hard on him, because he could not tell whether or not it could be for the long haul with the women. In fact, his emotions…
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Needle In The Hay

July 11, 2019
Forgiveness, we all know is a choice. It does not mean in any way that what your spouse did is okay. Can a marriage survive infidelity? Is there any way for a woman to exclusively, trust a man that has already been unfaithful to her once? Most women I know, are quick to…
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Valentine's Day Experiences

February 14, 2019
I believe with all of my heart that, love, in any form, is worth celebrating. A lot of people embrace the 14th day of February because it helps them remember their good and or, bad love experiences. Is the thought of this day worth remembering? Yes of course. Each memory of…
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Abena Sakyiwaa Adentwi Boateng

February 4, 2019
Abena is his serendipity. A woman he did not have to really search or look for. She was not part of his list of qualities, rather she is just a person, like any other woman, but of a difference. That made him realize she was ‘The One’. She appreciates all his flaws…
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The Look

January 30, 2019
Reality had set in and they both had freaked out for a second. They distanced themselves for days to process the whole incident all over again, because it didn’t sound real. It wasn’t happening to them… Because they couldn’t have anticipated this outcome. And there…
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But you know that...

January 29, 2019
Loving wholly is always filled with the probability of pain. She wants to return to her old love, and it’s not like she went looking for him. She was okay, happily married. He just happened to be where she was, and then all of a sudden, she’s began looking for that part…
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Power-Off!

January 28, 2019
Awful things do happen; we cannot change that fact. However, the manner in which we respond to some of these unfortunate occurrences defines our character, and also, the quality of our lives. We have the choice to grief, be miserable, be broken by the gravity of these…
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For the long haul

January 26, 2019
Allowing the heart to fall in love can be the best decision ever made or the worst. The whole process of being vulnerable and feeling that much in need of someone’s fidelity can be scary sometimes. Especially after giving them your all, and then later finding out they…
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My wife doesn't even know what I look like

January 19, 2019
When it dawned on him how much he really wanted to know this woman, he made the effort to look perfect, because he understood the importance of making her giggle, and then, smile, and then, laugh. He understood the importance of making her blush. He understood the importance…