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Deliberate faithfulness

Dear David Bondze-Mbir, I am smiling to myself because I am also sending you my story. I have been married for 16 years and all through the years, I have been faithful. I haven’t been always this decent. I used to know what was up. I lived it many times before meeting my…
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Silent prayer through sex

Hi, I read a comment under one of your posts on infidelity and I tried it. David, I just need your opinion on this. The lady who commented under your post said she suspected her husband to be cheating on her, and because she had no proof, she just prayed a prayer that…
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Initiate sex!

Good day Dave, I want to make few remarks about your posts on sex. My one decade experience of sex with 5 Ghanaian women, and 2 European women can be summarized as follows. First of all, most of our women are boring and unexcited when it comes to the bedroom and one style…
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Blinded by love

Hi Dave, I have an issue and being somewhat an introvert, I have no one to help out with an advice. I have been in a relationship for close to 6 years and I feel I’m either overreacting or things aren’t going well. For starter, most of the things I love doing have been…
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She's my show

People think I am a great man, successful but behind this greatness is my encouraging wife. Dave, we all go through problems and challenges but the weight is never the same when a young wife who loves you has watched you go through hell and endure the sight of you…
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Standards

Hello David, I am a silent follower. After reading why women lose themselves after marriage stories, I concluded most men are cowards. Most men claim they want smart, confident, hardworking and straightforward women but once you agree to their proposal, they…
#MyStory

We Move On

“I asked my mother why she was staying in that marriage. She feared being alone. She feared being rejected by other men for being ‘too old’ or a mother of four. She was in her mid-40’s. She didn’t want to fail at parenting us by herself. So, I asked her, ‘If…
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It takes 3

“Dave, on a typical weekend afternoon at my Achimota complex, you would find me, my first wife, second wife and five children playing together as one unit. We all live here together, not as roommates but as a family at home. I am married to two women. No, I’m no…
#MyStory

Aunty Akua’s Recipe

“We’ve been married for 10 years, and he’s not allowed our romance to fizzle out over the years. I’ve not felt insecure about the relationship in any way, since we got together. He’s always making me feel special with his compliments and attention to me. My…
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Married to George

“My father has been a strong support in my life. If I know how to respect and love myself, then he was the teacher of that, but he did not walk me down the aisle to give me away to my husband, my children did. We just held hands down the aisle together to start a brand…
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Deliberate Love

“Thank you for walking out on your ex. Thank you for being my friend. Thank you for being my girlfriend. Thank you for being my wife. Thank you for being the mother of our children. Thank you for the beautiful meals you cook for me every day. Thank you for the great…
#MyTurn

A better compensation

Early this year, I got three very interesting inbox messages which I titled ‘Uncle Daddy’. Many of us were left amazed, whispering the sweet ‘’Oohs’ and ‘Ahhs’ after reading their beautiful stories. Well, another one just dropped in my inbox. 😊. Yep! So are…
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Hints

“I gave my husband a hug and told him how much I love him, and he smiled and looked at me with that look of, ‘oh!’ He asked me “but why?” I said nothing. I smiled back warmly, and then went to my car to drive to work.  I am writing from a heart that is almost…
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Almost

Should talking about sex with your partner be anything difficult a task? Under which/what circumstances would be appropriate for one to tell it all to your significant other, that you’re not sexually satisfied with their best? Should this type of sexual talk be had in the…
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Pretend Str8

You are unconditionally loved by GOD, regardless of your story of orientation. Jesus died for even you. And, you’ve been fearfully and wonderfully created in His very Own Image, with such profound poise and worth, and no other person or their perceptions about you is way…
#TheProposal

So far so very good

Have you found your personal person that you are drawn to? That man or woman who is very interested in everything about you? That individual you feel safe being with all the time? That lady or gentleman who doesn’t make you feel judged in any way? The one who is loyal in…