#InboxMessages

Sexual gratification

Good morning David, trust all is good. I have been reading about ladies complaining about how unsatisfied they are with their husbands in the bedroom because they don’t last. From personal experience, a lot of factors contribute to that. First of all, is everything…
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For better, for worse

If a lot of us married men were to voice out our experiences in marriage, you would be in utter shock for the rest of your life. I applaud the man who was married to his late wife for 16 years. The reason why I still find it very difficult to share my story with you is that…
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Sent from above

I used to have this Nissan Altima in the 90s which was given to me by my mother before she died. That was the car I was living in 14 years ago before I met my wife. Dave, you didn’t read wrong. I lived in my car for 11 months and 9 days in 2006. I paid some landlords to…
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In love with my father's daughter

I am head pastor of our founder’s church. A very thriving family in the Gospel business and I loves my church. I love and respect our Founder and Presiding Bishop so much because I believe he mentored me well. I am great in this calling because I availed myself to serve…
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Mansa

‘Love should come naturally to us. We should not love those we are in love with because someone expects of us to love them. True love should come from within. In fact, you should feel and know that the man or woman deserves your love and undivided attention at all…
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Married to men who don't deserve us

Sometimes people think the stories are not true. I was a very outgoing free-spirited ambitious lady until I met my former husband years ago. Everything was a little ok even though I saw some of the signs before we got married. This man will go to the toilet and refuse to…
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Live, Love, Learn

Hey David, Again kudos…this platform is truly amazing and an opportunity for wise men and women to learn from people’s experiences. Marriage isn’t an easy journey because people have different experiences, baggages and backgrounds which influence…
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A sweet place to fall.

“She doesn’t have to do much to get my attention. She doesn’t have to do much to get me interested. She doesn’t have to do much to get me in love. She doesn’t have to do much to keep me aroused. She doesn’t have to do much to make me forgive. She doesn’t…
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Revelations 4 verse 2

“At that point, there was nothing I could do as their friend. I needed to wait for that moment she would come to terms with the fact that, her husband had made a choice, and it wasn’t her. I needed to wait for that moment she would make the hardest decision to let go…
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He pursued a church girl

“I’m beginning to suspect my husband joined my church basically to hook up with a decent ‘church girl’. When he first approached me, there was no attraction. I realized he liked me when he started hanging out with me at church activities, and was also trying so…
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Deliberate Love

“Thank you for walking out on your ex. Thank you for being my friend. Thank you for being my girlfriend. Thank you for being my wife. Thank you for being the mother of our children. Thank you for the beautiful meals you cook for me every day. Thank you for the great…
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I want to go Home

“I have never met anyone empathetic and understanding as my wife. We talk about everything, anything. She respects me and I am so proud of her. She does not manipulate me emotionally, she doesn’t give me the silent treatment anymore. She feeds me good meals. She’s…
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A better compensation

Early this year, I got three very interesting inbox messages which I titled ‘Uncle Daddy’. Many of us were left amazed, whispering the sweet ‘’Oohs’ and ‘Ahhs’ after reading their beautiful stories. Well, another one just dropped in my inbox. 😊. Yep! So are…
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Crossing the line

Is it wrong to date your best friend’s ex? How disrespectful is that? Can one date a friend’s ex – with or without their permission? Is loving such people even worth the pursuit, regardless? How about friendship? Is it worth sacrificing all in the name of love? Can one…
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B-5

When we were young, for whatever reason, some of us were sold the whole make-believe of falling in love with ‘The One’. But at our age today, has the fantasy still been fantastic? Are we making the right life and love decisions to match our maturity level, our ability to…
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Chips

What is your bigger picture mentally – when you look at the man or woman that you love? Do you sweat over small stuffs when it comes to him or her? How attentive are you to everything happening around you? Would you know if your spouse changed? Would you change back on…