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Deliberate faithfulness

Dear David Bondze-Mbir, I am smiling to myself because I am also sending you my story. I have been married for 16 years and all through the years, I have been faithful. I haven’t been always this decent. I used to know what was up. I lived it many times before meeting my…
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Sexually Employed

I started documenting some unusual changes in my husband. The first for me was the lots of new styles and things he introduced in our sex life. I do not mind adventure in sex but this sudden need to try these new things with me in the bedroom, things that were never our…
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Split the bills?

Hello Dave, hope this text finds you well. Can you please ask your audience especially the married, how they run their home financially, like payment of bills, school fees and food. Whether it’s a 50/50 partnership, 70/30 or the man carries all the financial burden of…
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Battle of trust

Mr. David hello, Let me go straight to the point. Some time ago, my husband came home and out of the blue, mentioned the name of a friend of mine that I have known for 18 years. He was speaking ill of her and was indirectly suggesting that I ended my friendship with her.
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Cheated!

Hello Dave, I’m confused about something and I need your followers’ advice on it. I am currently married and my mother-in-law owns a restaurant and I’m a good cook myself so I mostly come up with ideas and menus for the place. Before I got married I used to do…
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Letting him go

4 years ago I got pregnant for my husband. He was preparing to marry the love of his life. He hasn’t wedded me as his official woman; however he has presented drinks with his family to ask for my hand in marriage. That was done three years ago before I gave birth to our…
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Well deserved selfishness

I was in a good marriage and I knew my husband. I know how he acts when he is mad, sad or excited or happy. I know when he is angry, stressed or tired. I always see it when he is bored or even hungry. I know my man. But when he started to act out of character, which I doubt…
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She's lazy

I think my wife is lazy or I could be enabling her to be doing so. See, when we met I was amazed a beautiful girl like her could be interested in a guy like me. She is very pretty and way out of my league. I used to tell her she wouldn’t lift a finger to do anything at…
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In love with my father's daughter

I am head pastor of our founder’s church. A very thriving family in the Gospel business and I loves my church. I love and respect our Founder and Presiding Bishop so much because I believe he mentored me well. I am great in this calling because I availed myself to serve…
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Future other woman

I would want to believe I’m in a very good marriage because I do not see my wife feeling or thinking about not being cared for or not wanted. I make sure we send quality time together and I am intentional with this in many ways. I can put aside four whole evenings in a…
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Married to men who don't deserve us

Sometimes people think the stories are not true. I was a very outgoing free-spirited ambitious lady until I met my former husband years ago. Everything was a little ok even though I saw some of the signs before we got married. This man will go to the toilet and refuse to…
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She's my show

People think I am a great man, successful but behind this greatness is my encouraging wife. Dave, we all go through problems and challenges but the weight is never the same when a young wife who loves you has watched you go through hell and endure the sight of you…
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We Move On

“I asked my mother why she was staying in that marriage. She feared being alone. She feared being rejected by other men for being ‘too old’ or a mother of four. She was in her mid-40’s. She didn’t want to fail at parenting us by herself. So, I asked her, ‘If…
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He's Close

“Everyone suffers at least one bad betrayal in their lifetime. It’s what unites us. The trick is not to let it destroy your trust in others when that happens. Don’t let them take that from you.” ― Sherrilyn Kenyon “My dad left the country when I was 9 years…
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Mr. T

“I’ve seen the Black Stars of Ghana train for the World Cup, but have never won. Making the decision to want to commit to my wife in this marriage never guaranteed my faithfulness, which happens to be her ultimate expectation of me. I wasn’t sure I could meet those…
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Finding Esi

“My marriage to my wife comes first. Esi is the most important thing in my life; more important than my children, more important than work, more important than my parents and siblings, more important than my friends and love for football and the gym. My marriage to my…