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Everything has changed

Mr. David Bondze-Mbir, Happy New year. First time in your inbox with my story. I want to share with you because so far, I am enjoying your timeline. My ex-wife introduced me to my wife. I used to be married to a medical doctor. I messed things up between us by cheating. A…
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Cheated!

Hello Dave, I’m confused about something and I need your followers’ advice on it. I am currently married and my mother-in-law owns a restaurant and I’m a good cook myself so I mostly come up with ideas and menus for the place. Before I got married I used to do…
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Girlfriend or Sister

Dave, my husband has saved a girl’s name with his sister’s name for quite some time now. All along, I thought it was his sister but guess what happened this evening; he travelled and came back very tired so he has been sleeping since he arrived. I got to the room only…
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Teach your man to give you pleasure

Good afternoon Dave, I’d like to weigh in the ongoing talk about men ejaculating quickly during sex. I can see from the observers’ point that this issue is a concern for most of our women. Dave, I believe that it is high time for our women to start taking some…
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She's my show

People think I am a great man, successful but behind this greatness is my encouraging wife. Dave, we all go through problems and challenges but the weight is never the same when a young wife who loves you has watched you go through hell and endure the sight of you…
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My husband the MP

Hi Bondze, I have a question for all the men on your page. But before I ask the question, I’d want to introduce the reason to you. My husband is an MP and he is campaigning to retain his seat in parliament for no work done. I find it difficult to understand how he can go…
#MyStory

6 am

“If a man knows how much you’re worth, he will not cheat on you. If you’re the highlight of a man’s life he will not lie to you. If he is a better example of a man, he will not betray you. A man who acknowledges your role in his life will not disrespect or speak…
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Coping with the realities

Are you strong enough? Are you able to handle situations of any kind? Are you able to admit to the call for help? What would you do should your wife or husband be taken ill for years? Would you be angry? Would you know where to turn? How would you be able to schedule your…
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For the long haul

Allowing the heart to fall in love can be the best decision ever made or the worst. The whole process of being vulnerable and feeling that much in need of someone’s fidelity can be scary sometimes. Especially after giving them your all, and then later finding out they…
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He’s been FAITHFUL for 15 years

They claim most men are pigs; that all men would cheat. Some say men would always be chasers, thus, would biologically be incapable of remaining monogamous. Why do most men cheat? The excitement vanished. That the adventure in the sex fell off after the kids were born. Some…
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I love my husband so much

UPDATE: After my chat with her husband on her phone, he deleted our conversation to prevent her from seeing it. She only got to read what he had to say about her on my page, because she’s a fan of what I do. This is her message to me this morning Amma Okyir (AO): David…
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I've been FAITHFUL for 8 years

Is it really the biological imperative or right of a man to have sex with as many women as possible, regardless of their marital statuses? Is it true that all men cheat or will cheat at a point in life? Do all men get the ‘high’ (the feeling that it’s all wrong, yet it…
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Is marriage by force?

Marriage is awesome. We all know that. But does he know that? Should every grown up get married? Has the whole concept of it been overrated? Are there really other alternatives to being married? Like committing to a meaningful relationship that offers you the exact happiness…