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Sex marathon before divorce

You are making me remember things, David Bondze-Mbir. And it ain’t funny. I went to work one Friday, wearing a short skirt with no panties on, the morning after I had found out my husband was meeting his side chick at a hotel to spend the weekend. He told me he had an…
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Seek Peace

Good Morning David, I hope you are doing well. On the issue of divorce, let me share an experience from my parents with you. They have been married for 42 years, but they live like strangers now. I can even describe them as enemies. My mother just doesn’t want to be at…
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He’s remarried but won't divorce me

Hi Dave, God bless you for the good works that you have chosen to do with your page. I am a very troubled lady who needs advice urgently. Please keep me anonymous. I have a two-year-old daughter from a very short-lived marriage. The baby was barely five months when I…
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Just It

“She may not have been the preferred type to excite my vision as a man, but she’s become the love of my life over the years due to what we both have created and committed to. She’s not perfect but she’s my best decision yet. I am happy with my decision. I am not…
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A better compensation

Early this year, I got three very interesting inbox messages which I titled ‘Uncle Daddy’. Many of us were left amazed, whispering the sweet ‘’Oohs’ and ‘Ahhs’ after reading their beautiful stories. Well, another one just dropped in my inbox. 😊. Yep! So are…
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No longer afraid

A lot of the time we are so deep in the ditches of whatever love or marriage we think we are committed to, that we often do not see the mess we are in until it’s rather too late. I know, you need to do something different to make it work best for you and, maybe, the kids.
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Crossing the line

Is it wrong to date your best friend’s ex? How disrespectful is that? Can one date a friend’s ex – with or without their permission? Is loving such people even worth the pursuit, regardless? How about friendship? Is it worth sacrificing all in the name of love? Can one…
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Letting Go

I do not know whether or not I believe in this, but I’m going to say it anyways: If you can, treat everyone around you with kindness, enough kindness and respect and love; even to those who will or have hurt you the most. You are not doing this because they deserve it…
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Overwhelm Me

That relationship you are in or have even been in is like a thread, woven into something beautiful, a cloth of a kind. Pieces of the woven art attracts your attention because they seem not to be as perfect as you would have wanted it. And that’s where you sometimes would…
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So far so very good

Have you found your personal person that you are drawn to? That man or woman who is very interested in everything about you? That individual you feel safe being with all the time? That lady or gentleman who doesn’t make you feel judged in any way? The one who is loyal in…
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From the dark she rose

When someone you love is being abused, it affects you too. It affects everyone related to the abused. Watching your mother deal with an abusive husband can be extremely tough and can cause a whole lot of mixed reactions and feelings: anger, grief, guilt and even fear. It can…
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Uncle Daddy

The best thing in his life happened unexpectedly. His beautiful story actually began with, ‘and, all of a sudden…’ This sudden adventure of his was never planned though it turned out just alright for him. A lot of the time, we plan ahead and with the very best of…
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Abena Sakyiwaa Adentwi Boateng

Abena is his serendipity. A woman he did not have to really search or look for. She was not part of his list of qualities, rather she is just a person, like any other woman, but of a difference. That made him realize she was ‘The One’. She appreciates all his flaws…
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I can't deal

She has not become this tired and ‘out of it’ over this while without a cause. She felt let down by her husband because he really did let her down. She is disappointed by her husband because he disappointed her and the kids. She seems to be picking up the slack because…
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He’s been FAITHFUL for 9 years

Though young, he has seen a lot, been through a lot, found his way through a lot, and has become better. His experiences in life has neither limited nor defined him. From his past, he’s picked relevant lessons that has humbled him as a man. His outlook on life right now is…
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The miracle worker

There always comes that time you may have to look back over the years, and wonder exactly what might have been, should you have gotten to know that other person you kind of thought you liked. That thrilling familiarity, indeed, does create a deep sense of connection and…