#InboxMessages

Seek Peace

Good Morning David, I hope you are doing well. On the issue of divorce, let me share an experience from my parents with you. They have been married for 42 years, but they live like strangers now. I can even describe them as enemies. My mother just doesn’t want to be at…
#InboxMessages

59 seconds erection

I am not able to have an erection anymore. They have given me injections since the accident. I have taken Viagra, even tried vacuum pump just to see if it could create that pumping sensation when it’s placed on my penis to create the blood flow needed for normal…
#MyChatWithHer

For better, for worse

If a lot of us married men were to voice out our experiences in marriage, you would be in utter shock for the rest of your life. I applaud the man who was married to his late wife for 16 years. The reason why I still find it very difficult to share my story with you is that…
#InboxMessages

Is she a lesbian?

Hello Dave, I found out my girlfriend of two years has a thing for tomboys. She got insanely close to a tomboy in her house and got increasing familiar .she follows bisexual ladies and lesbians on her social media. I suspected her and asked her if she…
#InboxMessages

Set for doom!

Dearest David, I have just realized from observation that some marriages are set for doom even before the couple says ‘I do’. Yet the women go in hoping to change the narrative. It is not wrong for them to hope but all that I learnt in my short life has taught me…
#InboxMessages

Marriage scares me

Dave, I’m 31 and have never dated, never had a boyfriend. I read the messages some women send about the hell they go through in their marital homes and honestly I am afraid of dating or getting married. I wonder if there are any good guys around. I’m gainfully employed…
#MyStory

Deliberate Love

“Thank you for walking out on your ex. Thank you for being my friend. Thank you for being my girlfriend. Thank you for being my wife. Thank you for being the mother of our children. Thank you for the beautiful meals you cook for me every day. Thank you for the great…
#MyStory

Worth it

Have you ever felt uncertain about your fertility and questioned yourself as a woman and a wife? Have you ever been scared of the thought of not being able to give your spouse children? Is your body having a hard time doing what a woman is usually expected to do? Is the…
#MyChatWithHer

She knows

Yours may be also busily cheating on you. Are you going to be in denial or face the reality of it? Because to ignore gives him the go-ahead to pursue it further. To pretend as if you do not care or see his deeds equally concurs to him getting away with it. When is ever the…
#MyChatWithHim

Chips

What is your bigger picture mentally – when you look at the man or woman that you love? Do you sweat over small stuffs when it comes to him or her? How attentive are you to everything happening around you? Would you know if your spouse changed? Would you change back on…
Everyday People

Kwaku

He lived his life in a continual struggle. I think he still does, except, maybe now, he is choosing to see and appreciate the splendor that could come out of this art of struggling. He chose to become more than just what life threw at him. He did more. He found available…
Everyday People

Osei

Caring and loving or just being close to someone comes with its own probable risks. This man feels betrayed because trust has been broken. He feels very disappointed because someone he respected made an unfortunate decision in his stead – which he does not agree with.
#MyChatWithHer

On the blind side

Could it really be true that there are boundless opportunities out there for anyone to still find true love and happiness, even after being married to the one you assume is ‘The One’? Should men and women just get out there to explore the possibilities out there? Would…
#TheSurvey

Valentine's Day Experiences

I believe with all of my heart that, love, in any form, is worth celebrating. A lot of people embrace the 14th day of February because it helps them remember their good and or, bad love experiences. Is the thought of this day worth remembering? Yes of course. Each memory of…