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Cheating dreams

Dave, please tell me this is just a coincidence and it means nothing. I have three kids, all less than 10 years. The first child had a dream three weeks ago. I asked her to tell me about it and she preferred to rather sketch what it was. Her other siblings were asleep then.
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Premium BJ

Hello David, is blowjob a must give to the husband in marriage? Because I am not for the giving of that. When I was single, I used to give it to my exes. I used to love the whole idea of spoiling my man until he could barely stand it. With my husband, I am not enthusiastic…
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Seek Peace

Good Morning David, I hope you are doing well. On the issue of divorce, let me share an experience from my parents with you. They have been married for 42 years, but they live like strangers now. I can even describe them as enemies. My mother just doesn’t want to be at…
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59 seconds erection

I am not able to have an erection anymore. They have given me injections since the accident. I have taken Viagra, even tried vacuum pump just to see if it could create that pumping sensation when it’s placed on my penis to create the blood flow needed for normal…
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Is she a lesbian?

Hello Dave, I found out my girlfriend of two years has a thing for tomboys. She got insanely close to a tomboy in her house and got increasing familiar .she follows bisexual ladies and lesbians on her social media. I suspected her and asked her if she…
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Paid for sex

I lied to my husband and made him believe I hadn’t known a lot of men. He thinks he’s the 2nd or 3rd guy in my life because that’s the impression I created for him to fall in love with me. He loves good girls so I have to be one to fit his criteria. But the…
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Set for doom!

Dearest David, I have just realized from observation that some marriages are set for doom even before the couple says ‘I do’. Yet the women go in hoping to change the narrative. It is not wrong for them to hope but all that I learnt in my short life has taught me…
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Marriage scares me

Dave, I’m 31 and have never dated, never had a boyfriend. I read the messages some women send about the hell they go through in their marital homes and honestly I am afraid of dating or getting married. I wonder if there are any good guys around. I’m gainfully employed…
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He pursued a church girl

“I’m beginning to suspect my husband joined my church basically to hook up with a decent ‘church girl’. When he first approached me, there was no attraction. I realized he liked me when he started hanging out with me at church activities, and was also trying so…
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It's all wrong but it's alright

Love is real and it can happen to all of us. However, if we are not discerning enough, an appearance can deceive us. A tone of voice can lead us astray. A sex act can confuse us. The heart of the human being can be insincere, and they can be so charming – even in their…
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Needle In The Hay

Forgiveness, we all know is a choice. It does not mean in any way that what your spouse did is okay. Can a marriage survive infidelity? Is there any way for a woman to exclusively, trust a man that has already been unfaithful to her once? Most women I know, are quick to…
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Eyes-Right

What are your priorities when dating a married person? Do you think with your head or heart? Would it ever happen to you – for him or her to want to talk about his or her love for you, openly to the world? Would he or she be willing to want to walk in the sunshine with you…
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The Chancer

If the one you love has this consistent habit of always wanting to accuse you of behaviors they themselves know, and you damn know as well – they are exhibiting, what would that mean to you? When the man or woman you love, someway, somehow, just seems or is pretending to…
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Chips

What is your bigger picture mentally – when you look at the man or woman that you love? Do you sweat over small stuffs when it comes to him or her? How attentive are you to everything happening around you? Would you know if your spouse changed? Would you change back on…
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Oye

She found herself in a position I doubt would have known what to do – if I were to be in her shoes. Do we take our relationships for granted sometimes, even if we kind of, don’t intend to? Because, she had a happy relationship and marriage, and a man, the ‘right’…
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The Click

His primary consideration is for himself though he’s just not realizing it. That’s why he can easily lie and keep this secret from his wife without any remorse or regret, because it’s getting him what he wants. It’s being said a lot of the time that, guys naturally…