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Under 5-minute men

Mr. David, good morning, I read a post from the man who says he can’t go beyond 2 minutes. I think my husband is between 4 to 5 minutes. It’s not only him because it just occurred to me that, the exes I had dated all couldn’t go beyond 5 to 6 minutes. I have dated an…
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Split the bills?

Hello Dave, hope this text finds you well. Can you please ask your audience especially the married, how they run their home financially, like payment of bills, school fees and food. Whether it’s a 50/50 partnership, 70/30 or the man carries all the financial burden of…
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Sex marathon before divorce

You are making me remember things, David Bondze-Mbir. And it ain’t funny. I went to work one Friday, wearing a short skirt with no panties on, the morning after I had found out my husband was meeting his side chick at a hotel to spend the weekend. He told me he had an…
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Battle of trust

Mr. David hello, Let me go straight to the point. Some time ago, my husband came home and out of the blue, mentioned the name of a friend of mine that I have known for 18 years. He was speaking ill of her and was indirectly suggesting that I ended my friendship with her.
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Premium BJ

Hello David, is blowjob a must give to the husband in marriage? Because I am not for the giving of that. When I was single, I used to give it to my exes. I used to love the whole idea of spoiling my man until he could barely stand it. With my husband, I am not enthusiastic…
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Secret DNA

Dave, at what point does a man tell his wife to stop lying. I’m pissed right now; I can kill her if she opens up that mouth of hers again. Her excuse is she doesn’t know how it is possible for my son not to be my biological son. I did a secret DNA to confirm my…
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Pleasurable Communication

I married a virgin at 31 years. I will one day tell my story of how we broke it and it didn’t happen on our wedding night or the next day. Thank God for patient men like my husband. We explored, we read and we practiced. Are we perfect? No, one day I almost dislocated my…
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Sidelined in love

Hi Dave, I have an issue and being somewhat an introvert, I have no one to help out with an advice. I have been in a relationship for close to 6 years and I feel I’m either overreacting or things aren’t going well. For starter, most of the things I love doing have been…
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Confused!

I am in an intimate relationship with my husband’s best friend’s wife. We realized we were attracted to each other barely a year ago. And we have tried to keep the relationship as closeted as possible. We love our husbands, so that could make us bisexuals. A few months…
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Marriage called off

Hello Dave, this is the second time I’m writing to you. This is not to share my story or problem but to say thank you for starting this series on how some women have lost their voices in their marriage. It has been an eye-opener for me especially. I’m not married yet but…
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Is he wasting my time?

Good evening David, I have been dating this guy for about 4 years. We met in the Greater Accra region but he comes from the Eastern Region. He is very secretive about our relationship and basically, only 2 of his housemates know that we are dating. We attend the same church…
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She needs sexual healing

Dave, hope you are well. I would be grateful if you can help me with this situation I’m in. I’ve known this lady for several years but we started dating 2018. It has been a good and awesome relationship so far, despite some odds that are against us.
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She is seriously tempting me

Dave, trust you are doing well. Dave I almost sinned or should I say I have sinned? I almost slept with my friend’s wife. Dave, I should say I am a very disciplined young man. I have not had sex for the past four years so when the temptation presented…
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Am I wasting my time?

Dear Dave, I don’t know if I am the only one thinking it, but sometimes I feel my husband bad mouths me to people he wants to please. I don’t know why I have this feeling. He talks about me and it is not always good stuff, especially to ladies he feels may support his…