#DearDavid

I can't accept this

“My husband recently, quit his full-time job. This decision is by far his worse in my opinion, but as his wife, he is expecting me to be supportive of it and also, believe in him. We discussed it but I was against him quitting. I wanted him to start it as a part-time…
#DearDavid

Can't Stop

“I made a mistake. I thought I had learned from it but it happened again, and it’s been happening lately… A lot. I can’t stop cheating on my wife. And the truth is, I love my wife dearly. She’s my backbone, and everything. But the issue is, I feel more…
#InboxMessages

By 23

“Whenever you wake to push-open your curtains in the mornings, you have a choice to make. And these choices may or not define us, be it major or minor. These choices we make affect change. Question now is, would ‘the future’ you be proud of ‘the present’ you…
Inspiration

For You

I know a lot of you do not see your breakups coming. To you, everything was going great or could have gone great. When someone you love/d does not want to be in your life, please let them be. Do not force them, directly or indirectly to remain with you if they want out. Do…
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Hints

“I gave my husband a hug and told him how much I love him, and he smiled and looked at me with that look of, ‘oh!’ He asked me “but why?” I said nothing. I smiled back warmly, and then went to my car to drive to work.  I am writing from a heart that is almost…
#InboxMessages

Needle In The Hay

Forgiveness, we all know is a choice. It does not mean in any way that what your spouse did is okay. Can a marriage survive infidelity? Is there any way for a woman to exclusively, trust a man that has already been unfaithful to her once? Most women I know, are quick to…
#MyChatWithHer

Eyes-Right

What are your priorities when dating a married person? Do you think with your head or heart? Would it ever happen to you – for him or her to want to talk about his or her love for you, openly to the world? Would he or she be willing to want to walk in the sunshine with you…
#MyChatWithHer

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“Parents have this twisted belief that anyone under the age of about twenty simply can’t know what love is, like the age to love is assessed in the same way the law assesses the legal age to drink. They think that the ‘emotional growth’ of a teenager’s mind is too…
#MyChatWithHer

The Chancer

If the one you love has this consistent habit of always wanting to accuse you of behaviors they themselves know, and you damn know as well – they are exhibiting, what would that mean to you? When the man or woman you love, someway, somehow, just seems or is pretending to…
#MyChatWithHim

Pretend Str8

You are unconditionally loved by GOD, regardless of your story of orientation. Jesus died for even you. And, you’ve been fearfully and wonderfully created in His very Own Image, with such profound poise and worth, and no other person or their perceptions about you is way…
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Tundra

What features did you look for in your wife before settling on her? How important were those to you? Does a feature that a man wants in a woman make her any less of a woman if she lacks it? Does a man’s idea of an attractive lady makes the woman look any healthier or…
#TheSurvey

Pandora's Box: Open as you wish

The TRUTH is, we all lie. We all keep certain ‘dark‘ things unshared. And the reason you might be holding on to that whatever-it-is, is of no surprise to me. They may range from innocent to sinister, but you are holding on to something only known to you.
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The boy is mine

Ever been torn between two very important decisions to make? Where you felt you were really that unsure about what to or not do? Can a man have that much clarity in a complication? What is that thing always underneath the mess of confusing thoughts that sometimes, dances on…
#MyChatWithHer

I can't deal

She has not become this tired and ‘out of it’ over this while without a cause. She felt let down by her husband because he really did let her down. She is disappointed by her husband because he disappointed her and the kids. She seems to be picking up the slack because…
#MyChatWithHer

But you know that...

Loving wholly is always filled with the probability of pain. She wants to return to her old love, and it’s not like she went looking for him. She was okay, happily married. He just happened to be where she was, and then all of a sudden, she’s began looking for that part…
#TheProposal

Pregnant Virgin

He made a conscious effort never to judge her past because he could understand her pain. He could not change what had happened to her, but could change his outlook, thus, his reason for wanting to know her better. Whatever his wife’s history spelt was what has made her who…