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Cheating dreams

Dave, please tell me this is just a coincidence and it means nothing. I have three kids, all less than 10 years. The first child had a dream three weeks ago. I asked her to tell me about it and she preferred to rather sketch what it was. Her other siblings were asleep then.
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Under 5-minute men

Mr. David, good morning, I read a post from the man who says he can’t go beyond 2 minutes. I think my husband is between 4 to 5 minutes. It’s not only him because it just occurred to me that, the exes I had dated all couldn’t go beyond 5 to 6 minutes. I have dated an…
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Keep the good for yourself

Mr Bondze Mbir, you are doing a great job with your Facebook that is why I want to share a segment of my love life with you. I have been following your account for 5 months and you have grown on me and my wife. I come from a good family. I haven’t lacked anything because…
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Battle of trust

Mr. David hello, Let me go straight to the point. Some time ago, my husband came home and out of the blue, mentioned the name of a friend of mine that I have known for 18 years. He was speaking ill of her and was indirectly suggesting that I ended my friendship with her.
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Uncle with sex positions

Hello David, how are you? First and foremost, I think I might be overacting but I want to ask to be sure I am. My wife was raised by a man she calls her Uncle, though I later found out that they are not blood-related. He took care of her and her siblings when their parents…
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Pleasurable Communication

I married a virgin at 31 years. I will one day tell my story of how we broke it and it didn’t happen on our wedding night or the next day. Thank God for patient men like my husband. We explored, we read and we practiced. Are we perfect? No, one day I almost dislocated my…
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Sidelined in love

Hi Dave, I have an issue and being somewhat an introvert, I have no one to help out with an advice. I have been in a relationship for close to 6 years and I feel I’m either overreacting or things aren’t going well. For starter, most of the things I love doing have been…
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Well deserved selfishness

I was in a good marriage and I knew my husband. I know how he acts when he is mad, sad or excited or happy. I know when he is angry, stressed or tired. I always see it when he is bored or even hungry. I know my man. But when he started to act out of character, which I doubt…
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Sent from above

I used to have this Nissan Altima in the 90s which was given to me by my mother before she died. That was the car I was living in 14 years ago before I met my wife. Dave, you didn’t read wrong. I lived in my car for 11 months and 9 days in 2006. I paid some landlords to…
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Future other woman

I would want to believe I’m in a very good marriage because I do not see my wife feeling or thinking about not being cared for or not wanted. I make sure we send quality time together and I am intentional with this in many ways. I can put aside four whole evenings in a…
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Pause!

Hello David, Please hide my identity. I am not ashamed of my story, but for the simple reason that I am yet to confront my mother and some siblings to aid my healing process. Talking about the business of stolen voices, this is mine. It was my mother who tore me down and…
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Standards

Hello David, I am a silent follower. After reading why women lose themselves after marriage stories, I concluded most men are cowards. Most men claim they want smart, confident, hardworking and straightforward women but once you agree to their proposal, they…
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Save me from myself

“I have also embraced my role as her protector, in other worse, I have no plans to deliberately, or ever wound her. She deserves better. I will no longer let my children down, just for the sake of their mothers; I will be better and raise them to be better men.
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Finding Esi

“My marriage to my wife comes first. Esi is the most important thing in my life; more important than my children, more important than work, more important than my parents and siblings, more important than my friends and love for football and the gym. My marriage to my…
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Will give it all up

Some of us have become so busy in life that, we’ve allowed the lot to distract us from getting around to the very things and people we’re not supposed to be taking for granted. At the back of our minds, we know we’re neglecting the very people we’re to make a…
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Revelations 4 verse 2

“At that point, there was nothing I could do as their friend. I needed to wait for that moment she would come to terms with the fact that, her husband had made a choice, and it wasn’t her. I needed to wait for that moment she would make the hardest decision to let go…