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Cheating dreams

Dave, please tell me this is just a coincidence and it means nothing. I have three kids, all less than 10 years. The first child had a dream three weeks ago. I asked her to tell me about it and she preferred to rather sketch what it was. Her other siblings were asleep then.
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Deliberate faithfulness

Dear David Bondze-Mbir, I am smiling to myself because I am also sending you my story. I have been married for 16 years and all through the years, I have been faithful. I haven’t been always this decent. I used to know what was up. I lived it many times before meeting my…
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Everything has changed

Mr. David Bondze-Mbir, Happy New year. First time in your inbox with my story. I want to share with you because so far, I am enjoying your timeline. My ex-wife introduced me to my wife. I used to be married to a medical doctor. I messed things up between us by cheating. A…
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Sexually Employed

I started documenting some unusual changes in my husband. The first for me was the lots of new styles and things he introduced in our sex life. I do not mind adventure in sex but this sudden need to try these new things with me in the bedroom, things that were never our…
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Excuses for poor performance?

Ah, I don’t get it when men try to give excuses for why they don’t last. My favourite is “sex is not like it is in movies, five minutes is okay” bla bla bla. Hw3, brother “sa wo ho yale3” and stop giving excuses or find different strategy. Kwata kwata, 3…
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Under 5-minute men

Mr. David, good morning, I read a post from the man who says he can’t go beyond 2 minutes. I think my husband is between 4 to 5 minutes. It’s not only him because it just occurred to me that, the exes I had dated all couldn’t go beyond 5 to 6 minutes. I have dated an…
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Cheap commodity

Mr.David, I need your advice urgently. I am a good woman and my husband has been testifying to that to his friends and family. I fell in love with a charming stranger who later became my friend and now husband. The odd thing about my husband is he makes other people believe…
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Silent prayer through sex

Hi, I read a comment under one of your posts on infidelity and I tried it. David, I just need your opinion on this. The lady who commented under your post said she suspected her husband to be cheating on her, and because she had no proof, she just prayed a prayer that…
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Secret DNA

Dave, at what point does a man tell his wife to stop lying. I’m pissed right now; I can kill her if she opens up that mouth of hers again. Her excuse is she doesn’t know how it is possible for my son not to be my biological son. I did a secret DNA to confirm my…
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Losing my wife to my ex

I keep a good record when it comes to me and my women. I do right by them, especially those I enter into serious relationship with. So I don’t understand my bad luck till date. I have been married twice and I was doing everything a man had to do to keep his woman. I…
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59 seconds erection

I am not able to have an erection anymore. They have given me injections since the accident. I have taken Viagra, even tried vacuum pump just to see if it could create that pumping sensation when it’s placed on my penis to create the blood flow needed for normal…
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Well deserved selfishness

I was in a good marriage and I knew my husband. I know how he acts when he is mad, sad or excited or happy. I know when he is angry, stressed or tired. I always see it when he is bored or even hungry. I know my man. But when he started to act out of character, which I doubt…
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HIV Mystery

I am not here to blame anyone. I am just trying to be realistic here. I am seeing this girl that I love. We have been together for more than a year. Even though I am in love with her, I make sure we always use condoms during sex. Cunnilingus is one thing I enjoy with my…
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Girlfriend or Sister

Dave, my husband has saved a girl’s name with his sister’s name for quite some time now. All along, I thought it was his sister but guess what happened this evening; he travelled and came back very tired so he has been sleeping since he arrived. I got to the room only…
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Future other woman

I would want to believe I’m in a very good marriage because I do not see my wife feeling or thinking about not being cared for or not wanted. I make sure we send quality time together and I am intentional with this in many ways. I can put aside four whole evenings in a…
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Too much power, too much control

Dear David We met at the market Saturday morning. How are you doing sir? I was about to send you a message and I realized you had already posted about our encounter. It was really nice meeting you personally and though I could see you were very busy shopping with your…