#InboxMessages

Too much power, too much control

Dear David We met at the market Saturday morning. How are you doing sir? I was about to send you a message and I realized you had already posted about our encounter. It was really nice meeting you personally and though I could see you were very busy shopping with your…
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Focus!

Sometimes, we men forget what’s important in life especially when we have been in a relationship for a long time. I always felt like my wife nagged too much about everything and wanted too much from me, that nothing I did was ever right. She used to complain about not…
#InboxMessages

My husband the MP

Hi Bondze, I have a question for all the men on your page. But before I ask the question, I’d want to introduce the reason to you. My husband is an MP and he is campaigning to retain his seat in parliament for no work done. I find it difficult to understand how he can go…
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She is seriously tempting me

Dave, trust you are doing well. Dave I almost sinned or should I say I have sinned? I almost slept with my friend’s wife. Dave, I should say I am a very disciplined young man. I have not had sex for the past four years so when the temptation presented…
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I am not stupid

Dearest Dave, I commend you for the good work you do to support people with relationship issues. Kindly make me anonymous. My husband and I have been married for almost two years and we have a 10-month-old baby and pregnant with the second child. When I noticed I was…
#MyChatWithHer

A-Spot

She’s realized her marriage has changed. Question is, how easy or difficult is it for a spouse to accept a reality and choose whether or not to move on with life? Are you having suspicions of any sort yourself also? Have you taken notice of how he or she looks at people of…
#12Questions

She inspires the better version of me

His love for his wife is real; the real type that raises his vibration. Normally, a man wouldn’t walk around at a high level of awareness, but his wife triggers that in him because she’s right for him. He’s become a better version of himself. True love is that…
#TheProposal

Man was HOT

He didn’t know what he wanted at first. But then, the 10th phone number got him thinking: would it be a bad idea for him to pursue whoever owned that new number? Would it be a bad idea for him to be seeking validation, cuddling, sex, friendship and attention from whomever…
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Be My Guest

BE MY GUEST is the composition of a data collected from a survey I conducted on the 18th of July, 2018.  And unlike my previous surveys that I allowed just anybody to inbox me with their stories (whereby I could not tell whether or not their Facebook accounts were…
#MyChatWithHer

Being his legal wife helps should he die

Marriage as we all know is work. Work is difficult enough as it is without adding poverty to the mix. She likes him now, and is even thinking he completes her in many ways. Should money be a factor in a woman’s decision to pursuing a lifelong commitment with a guy? Can…
#MyChatWithHer

I am HIV positive

Imagine meeting that man who isn’t so consumed by his work that he wouldn’t be bothered to want to spend uninterrupted time with you, because you are that important to him? Her husband was all that and more. He was happy to turn off his phone so he could focus on…
#MyChatWithHim

She's daring me to get a divorce

He’s very charming and endearing, and was cheating on his wife. He wants his wife’s forgiveness. Wife wants space to think things through. But he’s finding an issue with her silent treatment. And he’s flipping out because he thinks she’s abandoning his needs. How…
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The second lady

She’s fallen deeply in love with his character, his unique looks, his sense of humor, wit, maturity level and the friendship they share. Something is right about him, and the physical attraction and chemistry between them is that intense. He’s never rushed her into sex.
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I love my wife but I'm in love with this other lady

He didn’t ask to fall in love with this other woman who is with her husband and kids. His love for her has never stopped, and it doesn’t seem to want to stop any time soon. According to him, his love is never limited to whether or not she’s another man’s wife. Love…