“Dave, on a typical weekend afternoon at my Achimota complex, you would find me, my first wife, second wife and five children playing together as one unit. We all live here together, not as roommates but as a family at home. I am married to two women. No, I’m no Muslim. 100% Christian. There’s no one way to do family. And it’s unfortunate in this part of our world, we’d rather put restrictions on the way one ought to love someone. I feel it’s just senseless.” – CY
“I met my first wife 11 years ago. I still love her the same way I married her. Nothing has changed. I married my second wife 9 years ago when I realized I couldn’t stick to just my first wife. Wife A is a chartered accountant by profession, wife B is a doctor. The women are good to each other and the kids, they also, indirectly step up to draw my attention in bed. For instance, wife A is at the moment trying to lose the weight, just to look sexy. She knows I love her just the way she is, but she’s not having it. She thinks I spend more time with her junior. She’s training at home every morning and evening just to flirt with my curiosity. Wife B is slim, and has been overeating over the years to gain weight to be like her senior. She thinks I am into meaty women and probably why I spend more time at her senior’s bedroom.
But Dave, I apportion the timing with each spouse fairly. No one is taking too much of me but they’re not realizing that. I see the way they relate to each other in my presence. They both love me and respect each other, but are openly jealous of each other. They tell themselves how jealous they are of each other and how they wished they had the other’s body. Women are complicated bro. Crazy as hell, but fun to have around. Non has ever complained about the other to me, but I know they complain about me to each other – for the other to sit me down to change an attitude.
Like yesterday for instance, they were asking if I would go for another woman. I said no, because they’re both giving me everything I ever wanted in the moment, different types of meals from different hands, different styles of sex from different body types, outstanding brainstorming with two brilliant minds, different children with different mothers, fascinating attitudes with two different women. The list is endless. Different communication skills, different upbringings and in-laws, etc.
They’re both special to me and they know it. In fact, I want my sons to see family as this and grow up to be better than me. I provide for the family the best way I can, and the women support themselves because they’re independent. They can keep the family together without me. I have also given them the liberty to bring in a man if they feel like tasting outside waters. I am definitely not cool with them introducing a fourth or fifth party, however, I need to be fair to them. I am so glad that so far, none has made the decision to look out. But even if they are, because they have my permission, they will use condoms and practice other safety measures just to protect us.
I make sure my sex game is on point though. Without any aphrodisiacs, I am able to thrust for over 20 minutes every session with each wife. I am 49 years. And I can go as far as three rounds. They get more than two rounds of orgasm when we have sex. Sex is good and I try to always stay in shape. No alcohol or smoke in the system. No drugs too. They make sure there is enough ginger and onions in my food, nutmeg also in the stews and soups, I drink a lot of plain water with stalks of the ginseng plant in it.
The best part for me is, I am always home with the family. Instead of staying out with friends or fooling with other women, I rush home to be entertained by the family. I think always being home on time to hang with your wives is the best aphrodisiac to last you in bed.
Dave, love is to be shared, and emotionally, I am not unfaithful to my wives. Dave, on a typical weekend afternoon at my Achimota complex, you would find me, my first wife, second wife and five children playing together as one unit. We all live here together, not as roommates but as a family at home. I am married to two women. No, I’m no Muslim. 100% Christian. There’s no one way to do family. And it’s unfortunate in this part of our world, we’d rather put restrictions on the way one ought to love someone. I feel it’s just senseless.”