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Pretend Str8

You are unconditionally loved by GOD, regardless of your story of orientation. Jesus died for even you. And, you’ve been fearfully and wonderfully created in His very Own Image, with such profound poise and worth, and no other person or their perceptions about you is way…
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Chips

What is your bigger picture mentally – when you look at the man or woman that you love? Do you sweat over small stuffs when it comes to him or her? How attentive are you to everything happening around you? Would you know if your spouse changed? Would you change back on…
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Tundra

What features did you look for in your wife before settling on her? How important were those to you? Does a feature that a man wants in a woman make her any less of a woman if she lacks it? Does a man’s idea of an attractive lady makes the woman look any healthier or…
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Ma forte tour

He did not have to hide his true self from his wife and put on a front in order to be what he thought she wanted in a man. She did not make him feel embarrassed for having flaws. She gave him enough room to share himself, and also be vulnerable and feel safe doing so…
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Tried and tested

So you may be also just ‘friends’ with that lady or gentleman, and are just ‘fooling’ around. Of course, no strings attached, you both know that. But the more time you keep spending on phone ‘fooling’ and texting with them builds a bond you both aren’t sure of.
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See see hubby Eyemra

Trust is needed for a marriage to survive. You trust your partner but does he or she trust you? Do you have anything to hide? Are you an open book? How would you feel if you got to know your husband or wife was spying on you? Why would someone you love be monitoring your…
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I mean well

Is a man selfish if he’s involved with more than one woman at the same time? Is such a man greedy, and a liar, with no consideration for the feelings of the other parties? Can a man fall in love with more than just one woman and be allowed to love them both accordingly?
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Coping with the realities

Are you strong enough? Are you able to handle situations of any kind? Are you able to admit to the call for help? What would you do should your wife or husband be taken ill for years? Would you be angry? Would you know where to turn? How would you be able to schedule your…
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The boy is mine

Ever been torn between two very important decisions to make? Where you felt you were really that unsure about what to or not do? Can a man have that much clarity in a complication? What is that thing always underneath the mess of confusing thoughts that sometimes, dances on…
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The Click

His primary consideration is for himself though he’s just not realizing it. That’s why he can easily lie and keep this secret from his wife without any remorse or regret, because it’s getting him what he wants. It’s being said a lot of the time that, guys naturally…
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My wife and girlfriend are both pregnant

Life will always present us with different choices and reasons to either have to make them or not. And a lot of the time, we may deem it right to take certain actions – because they look right in our thoughts. Difficult as some choices may be, we make them anyways. He made…
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He’s been FAITHFUL for 9 years

Though young, he has seen a lot, been through a lot, found his way through a lot, and has become better. His experiences in life has neither limited nor defined him. From his past, he’s picked relevant lessons that has humbled him as a man. His outlook on life right now is…
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Dirty on the outside, clean inside

Ordinarily, when you make up your mind to want to settle in a marriage with someone, the last thing you probably would think about is whether or not you’re going to fall out of it. He started his journey from the end. He never really laughed or enjoyed being around her…
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He’s been FAITHFUL for 15 years

They claim most men are pigs; that all men would cheat. Some say men would always be chasers, thus, would biologically be incapable of remaining monogamous. Why do most men cheat? The excitement vanished. That the adventure in the sex fell off after the kids were born. Some…
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My wrong was to be unemployed

He’s been unemployed since 2016. Every day, he steps out in faith, always trusting in GOD for a job. He’s doing his very best to be there for his wife and kids. He believes, that life happens! And that, what he would be doing for a living (career-wise) is just a part.
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I've been FAITHFUL for 8 years

Is it really the biological imperative or right of a man to have sex with as many women as possible, regardless of their marital statuses? Is it true that all men cheat or will cheat at a point in life? Do all men get the ‘high’ (the feeling that it’s all wrong, yet it…