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A-Spot

She’s realized her marriage has changed. Question is, how easy or difficult is it for a spouse to accept a reality and choose whether or not to move on with life? Are you having suspicions of any sort yourself also? Have you taken notice of how he or she looks at people of…
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On the blind side

Could it really be true that there are boundless opportunities out there for anyone to still find true love and happiness, even after being married to the one you assume is ‘The One’? Should men and women just get out there to explore the possibilities out there? Would…
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Unsure

Honestly, do you take a second look at that attractive lady or gentleman who passed you on the street? Or the one pumping iron at the gym, how do you find him? Does being married necessarily mean your eyes build blinders to attractive people? Is looking and admiring others…
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Seize the Night

When I was a kid, I used to giggle anytime I read the Songs of Solomon, from the Bible. Even at a Sunday school age, I loved what I read: I mean, the audaciousness and the blatant plainness at which the writer would describe the sexual being was selxy. Lol! I wasn’t a…
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Could this be real?

When you meet someone you least expected to meet, and get to like them even under the weirdest of circumstances: When you fall in love with them and get to share the treasured emotion of loving and being loved back, the feeling is fulfilling. The best of it all is when they…
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Ooops!

Would it be okay for me to assume that her man has concealed information he will not offer up voluntarily? Would I be right to say that she does not know her husband as well as she thinks she does? What information is being hidden from her? – DBM #MyChatWithHer CK…
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I can't deal

She has not become this tired and ‘out of it’ over this while without a cause. She felt let down by her husband because he really did let her down. She is disappointed by her husband because he disappointed her and the kids. She seems to be picking up the slack because…
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But you know that...

Loving wholly is always filled with the probability of pain. She wants to return to her old love, and it’s not like she went looking for him. She was okay, happily married. He just happened to be where she was, and then all of a sudden, she’s began looking for that part…
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Just the two of us

Her love is good, mature and healthy. Her love for her husband is not being or a feeling. Her love is not motivated or inspired or the being swept away kind. Neither is she overwhelmed. To her, love is an act, an intentional decision she took. A very deliberate effort to…
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For the long haul

Allowing the heart to fall in love can be the best decision ever made or the worst. The whole process of being vulnerable and feeling that much in need of someone’s fidelity can be scary sometimes. Especially after giving them your all, and then later finding out they…
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My husband and I never dated

When she felt it, she really felt it, like a drug. She fell in love with him, and it knew no depth. It has stayed with her, and she’s believing he stays with her too, forever. His happiness means more than her own. She dreams of all the ways she can take very good care of…
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My man should speak to my mind, brain and intellect

The type of woman who would speak to her man in a terse and candid manner – when it comes to expressing her needs. Always avoiding the mistake of letting the other party navigate through her feelings in order to understand what she wants to say. She would rather do you the…
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I am too much woman

Ms. knows who she is. She knows what she wants, and would not waste her precious time with ‘state of affairs’ or men that do not fit into her model. The opposite indeed attracts. And most men would want to know on the spot, whether or not they are candidates. If it’s…
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Love is the choice I make

What could be more gorgeous and sensual than a resilient, assertive and secure woman? She has done her inner work. She feels worthy about who she is and is contented in her own skin. She does not have to be stunning, rich and celebrated, but she does have to live her life…
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Being his legal wife helps should he die

Marriage as we all know is work. Work is difficult enough as it is without adding poverty to the mix. She likes him now, and is even thinking he completes her in many ways. Should money be a factor in a woman’s decision to pursuing a lifelong commitment with a guy? Can…
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My heaven on earth experience

Every wife wants to know that she’s loved by her man, and no such woman would be tired of hearing “I love you” either from her husband. But to most women, showing how you really feel about them is as important as letting them know. It may be cliché’ for some, but…