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Crisis Management

I hear that the Chinese people use two brush strokes to always write the word crisis. One brush stroke, I’m informed stands for danger; and the other signifying opportunity. So in other words, whenever you find yourself in crisis, be intentionally aware of the danger…
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30 years later...

She hasn’t been able to heal the resulting feelings of abandonment. And due to this she’s still emotionally stuck at the age of her earliest wounds. This is causing her to repeat her past experiences of suffering and anger and hurt and unforgiveness. She’s back to the…
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A walk in those

Do you have a secret within your secret? Why have you not told anyone? Are you ashamed of the contents of the secret? Or you just don’t feel like getting into the story all over again, to have to be explaining why you’re not your past? Should one make themselves…
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In-waiting

It always starts with that simple text or phone call, trying to check on them. In your mind, you two are just in the ‘platonics’, nothing really serious going on. But then, flashes of them comes to mind spasmodically, sometimes even when you’re not thinking about them.
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Crossing the line

Is it wrong to date your best friend’s ex? How disrespectful is that? Can one date a friend’s ex – with or without their permission? Is loving such people even worth the pursuit, regardless? How about friendship? Is it worth sacrificing all in the name of love? Can one…
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Coded

How long are you willing to stay in that relationship/marriage, knowing very well how unhappy and fed-up you are. You know you’re out of steam, yet you’re still in it with them. What exactly are you waiting for? What is your breaking point in that relationship? Or…
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Letting Go

I do not know whether or not I believe in this, but I’m going to say it anyways: If you can, treat everyone around you with kindness, enough kindness and respect and love; even to those who will or have hurt you the most. You are not doing this because they deserve it…
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Eyes-Right

What are your priorities when dating a married person? Do you think with your head or heart? Would it ever happen to you – for him or her to want to talk about his or her love for you, openly to the world? Would he or she be willing to want to walk in the sunshine with you…
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“Parents have this twisted belief that anyone under the age of about twenty simply can’t know what love is, like the age to love is assessed in the same way the law assesses the legal age to drink. They think that the ‘emotional growth’ of a teenager’s mind is too…
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The Chancer

If the one you love has this consistent habit of always wanting to accuse you of behaviors they themselves know, and you damn know as well – they are exhibiting, what would that mean to you? When the man or woman you love, someway, somehow, just seems or is pretending to…
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Almost

Should talking about sex with your partner be anything difficult a task? Under which/what circumstances would be appropriate for one to tell it all to your significant other, that you’re not sexually satisfied with their best? Should this type of sexual talk be had in the…
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Outside In

The morning her father died, she sent this text message to her mother: “Ma, I hope you’re not going to be crying after all that he did to you, and to us? It’s good he’s dead, you know? Just cheer up. We will work hard to take very good care of you. You’re too good…
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Nonsense degree

Guys, what’s your penis size and length? Are you proud of what it can do when it’s fully charged to work on someone? What’s your longest tour? Are you able to travel through Ethiopia, Sudan, Cambodia, Hong Kong, Taiwan, Cuba, Poland, Israel, Jerusalem, Jamaica…
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She knows

Yours may be also busily cheating on you. Are you going to be in denial or face the reality of it? Because to ignore gives him the go-ahead to pursue it further. To pretend as if you do not care or see his deeds equally concurs to him getting away with it. When is ever the…
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Off-Scent

A week and some days ago, I met with one of the BEAUTIFUL human beings I have ever seen my entire life. She’s a 41 years old mother of two. Truthfully speaking, she did not look anything close to 18 years mpo. I saw the true definition of beauty. She made me appreciate the…
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Unfaithful

Do you know what your significant other is thinking? How about the other way round: that feeling of not knowing what your partner could be thinking about? I know it’s impossible to know exactly what the other person is thinking without them telling you, but could one rely…