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Letting him go

4 years ago I got pregnant for my husband. He was preparing to marry the love of his life. He hasn’t wedded me as his official woman; however he has presented drinks with his family to ask for my hand in marriage. That was done three years ago before I gave birth to our…
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59 seconds erection

I am not able to have an erection anymore. They have given me injections since the accident. I have taken Viagra, even tried vacuum pump just to see if it could create that pumping sensation when it’s placed on my penis to create the blood flow needed for normal…
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Well deserved selfishness

I was in a good marriage and I knew my husband. I know how he acts when he is mad, sad or excited or happy. I know when he is angry, stressed or tired. I always see it when he is bored or even hungry. I know my man. But when he started to act out of character, which I doubt…
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She's lazy

I think my wife is lazy or I could be enabling her to be doing so. See, when we met I was amazed a beautiful girl like her could be interested in a guy like me. She is very pretty and way out of my league. I used to tell her she wouldn’t lift a finger to do anything at…
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HIV Mystery

I am not here to blame anyone. I am just trying to be realistic here. I am seeing this girl that I love. We have been together for more than a year. Even though I am in love with her, I make sure we always use condoms during sex. Cunnilingus is one thing I enjoy with my…
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Sent from above

I used to have this Nissan Altima in the 90s which was given to me by my mother before she died. That was the car I was living in 14 years ago before I met my wife. Dave, you didn’t read wrong. I lived in my car for 11 months and 9 days in 2006. I paid some landlords to…
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In love with my father's daughter

I am head pastor of our founder’s church. A very thriving family in the Gospel business and I loves my church. I love and respect our Founder and Presiding Bishop so much because I believe he mentored me well. I am great in this calling because I availed myself to serve…
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Initiate sex!

Good day Dave, I want to make few remarks about your posts on sex. My one decade experience of sex with 5 Ghanaian women, and 2 European women can be summarized as follows. First of all, most of our women are boring and unexcited when it comes to the bedroom and one style…
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Blinded by love

Hi Dave, I have an issue and being somewhat an introvert, I have no one to help out with an advice. I have been in a relationship for close to 6 years and I feel I’m either overreacting or things aren’t going well. For starter, most of the things I love doing have been…
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Confused!

I am in an intimate relationship with my husband’s best friend’s wife. We realized we were attracted to each other barely a year ago. And we have tried to keep the relationship as closeted as possible. We love our husbands, so that could make us bisexuals. A few months…
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Girlfriend or Sister

Dave, my husband has saved a girl’s name with his sister’s name for quite some time now. All along, I thought it was his sister but guess what happened this evening; he travelled and came back very tired so he has been sleeping since he arrived. I got to the room only…
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Future other woman

I would want to believe I’m in a very good marriage because I do not see my wife feeling or thinking about not being cared for or not wanted. I make sure we send quality time together and I am intentional with this in many ways. I can put aside four whole evenings in a…
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Emotional cheating

I have been hesitating to speak with you about this. My fiancé has cheated on me not sexually, but emotionally accompanied with lies. My pastors have encouraged me to stay in the relationship and we decided to work it out. I however found out that, he still maintains…
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Teach your man to give you pleasure

Good afternoon Dave, I’d like to weigh in the ongoing talk about men ejaculating quickly during sex. I can see from the observers’ point that this issue is a concern for most of our women. Dave, I believe that it is high time for our women to start taking some…
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Is she a lesbian?

Hello Dave, I found out my girlfriend of two years has a thing for tomboys. She got insanely close to a tomboy in her house and got increasing familiar .she follows bisexual ladies and lesbians on her social media. I suspected her and asked her if she…
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He was nobody's type

Mr. Dave, at what point does a woman stop forgiving her husband’s sins. Because I think I am tired, I am tired of being the one to make our marriage work. I am tired of trying to keep the home together. I am tired of trying because there are children involved, I…