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Love affair

I am 40 years old and I was the other woman in my husband’s life. Initially, it was just for the convenience. I wasn’t interested in a serious relationship. My job required me to travel a lot, so I never saw myself committing to something serious. All I wanted was…
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A cheater's punishment

There is this worrying trend, a deep sense of entitlement among people who claim to be in love. I think it borders on insanity and a criminal mindset, the idea that a partner who is suspected of sleeping with another person or has actually slept with another person deserves…
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Letting go

Good evening David, please I need your advice. I met a lady in 2017 and I proposed to her and we started going out but she was in her first year at the university. I had completed, done with national service and I was working. David, things were ok but suddenly, her attitude…
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Vengeance

I need your help Mr.Mbir. My brother is the photocopy of our father. I am not talking about in black or white. Dave, he is ruthless and can be vengeful. He is the upgrade version of our Dad. When we were at the University, he promised to hit it at where it would painfully…
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Single and happy

Hi Dave, I just read a story on your page about a lady who is seeing red flags few months to her wedding. I just thought I should share mine. Please keep me anonymous. My wedding was supposed to be in August 2018. Everything had been purchased, counseling completed. Three…
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A festish husband?

I have been trying to send you this message since August 2020 when I found out,about what I am going to tell you. But I keep deleting and holding back. David, I am scared, I am also worried. I don’t even know where to start. My husband is a wonderful man. He loves me, I…
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Hindrance

I have dated this beautiful lady for the past three years. She is older than I am but we love each other dearly despite the disparity in age. She is 9 years older that I am but still looks beautiful. My family doesn’t want me to marry her because they said she is older…
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Against my peace of mind

Hello Mr. Dave, my wife and my mother have teamed up to disturb my peace. How do I fight them? My wife doesn’t trust me because she has been listening to the lies my mother has been feeding her. She takes relationship advice from my mother. Meanwhile, I have told her my…
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Goodbye to infidelity

I think you are doing a wonderful job with your platform Mr. David. Maybe that is why I want to share my story for the first time on social media. I was one of those married men who underestimated the emotional ramification of my action outside my matrimonial home. I was…
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Broken trust

Kindly let me disturb you please. I started going out with a guy last year. He is actually the first guy I introduced to my folks because I felt he was the one. He has a child and since that was before I met him, I had no issue with it. He travelled to his hometown somewhere…
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No church wedding

Good evening David! My boyfriend and I are planning our marriage and we initially agreed on a church wedding with limited number of people but he has changed his mind and wants us to do everything at the engagement where we will have the Pastors bless the marriage, wear 3…
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Indecisive

Dear David, I have been one of your silent readers for sometime now. I have a worry on which I need a mature advice. My husband and I have been married for 7 years now. When I met him he was living in a rented apartment. A year later,his rent was due and he wanted to renew…
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Cheating!

Mr. David, I need your help and it’s urgent. I am cheating on my husband. I am not justifying my actions. I just want to tell you how things managed to get this complicated. Two years ago, I felt this unrest in my spirit that he was having an affair. My husband is the type…
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Her love changed me.

I am plus 11 years in my marriage this week. We have four lovely monsters terrorizing us in the name of children. I used to think being single was the best feeling in the world, coupled with the fact that I was young and fresh too. Dave, there was freedom to size them all up…
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It was never love

Dave, I have been married for seven years with two very beautiful kids. My wife is the most perfect woman I have ever met in my entire life but the problem is I realized I just liked her humility but have never loved her. I confided in my mother to divorce her with same…
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A good companion

The day I met her for the first time, I could already feel a strong bond.The next day I told my colleagues at work. “I think I just met my future wife”. We became very close and were best friends during our dating period. When we got married, we became even closer. Sure…