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Sex marathon before divorce

You are making me remember things, David Bondze-Mbir. And it ain’t funny. I went to work one Friday, wearing a short skirt with no panties on, the morning after I had found out my husband was meeting his side chick at a hotel to spend the weekend. He told me he had an…
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Battle of trust

Mr. David hello, Let me go straight to the point. Some time ago, my husband came home and out of the blue, mentioned the name of a friend of mine that I have known for 18 years. He was speaking ill of her and was indirectly suggesting that I ended my friendship with her.
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I am not jealous

Hello Dave, hope you are doing well. I have a challenge which I hope you or your numerous followers can help me with. From way back, I know the primary responsibility of a man is to take care of the home financially by providing everything the family needs. Fulfilling that…
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Men, take better care of yourselves

Hi Dave, well last night I struggled to sleep. While I was at my struggle, I found myself thinking of the 1-minute men and men ejaculating fast post. Vaginal sex typically lasts 3 to 7 minutes according to a 2005 Society for Sex Therapy and Research Member Survey. That’s…
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Sexual restrictions

Good morning Dave, just yesterday morning Tuesday, my wife told me to only have sex with her once, meaning if I “cum” that ends it. I shouldn’t go beyond one because she can’t withstand it. The truth of the matter is that I hardly “cum”. She can have an orgasm…
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I want SEX!!

Please, how do I teach an unteachable spirit how to have sex with me? Dave, I’m suffering ooo, this man is so difficult to reason with. Why should I be denied of an orgasm? Why should my body not enjoy the pleasures of a man’s touch simply because my husband isn’t…
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Uncle with sex positions

Hello David, how are you? First and foremost, I think I might be overacting but I want to ask to be sure I am. My wife was raised by a man she calls her Uncle, though I later found out that they are not blood-related. He took care of her and her siblings when their parents…
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Premium BJ

Hello David, is blowjob a must give to the husband in marriage? Because I am not for the giving of that. When I was single, I used to give it to my exes. I used to love the whole idea of spoiling my man until he could barely stand it. With my husband, I am not enthusiastic…
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GHC7000 house husband?

Hi David, I need you to just tell me what you think of what I am about to say. I earn more than my husband. In fact, 10 times more than what he brings home at the end of the month. I enjoy being his wife to the extent that, though I should be the one with a busy schedule and…
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Pleasurable Communication

I married a virgin at 31 years. I will one day tell my story of how we broke it and it didn’t happen on our wedding night or the next day. Thank God for patient men like my husband. We explored, we read and we practiced. Are we perfect? No, one day I almost dislocated my…
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Losing my wife to my ex

I keep a good record when it comes to me and my women. I do right by them, especially those I enter into serious relationship with. So I don’t understand my bad luck till date. I have been married twice and I was doing everything a man had to do to keep his woman. I…
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Strong baby

My baby of 2 years is too difficult to handle. She is physically very strong. She can pull 5kg rice, yes ooo I’m not lying. In fact, you have to force her to do everything for her as in bathing, putting on diapers, clothes, combing her hair and brushing her teeth. The one…
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Seek Peace

Good Morning David, I hope you are doing well. On the issue of divorce, let me share an experience from my parents with you. They have been married for 42 years, but they live like strangers now. I can even describe them as enemies. My mother just doesn’t want to be at…
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Sexy nuggets

Good afternoon Dave, I’d like to weigh in the ongoing talk about men ejaculating quickly during sex. I can see from the observers’ point that this issue is a concern for most of our women. Dave, I believe that it is high time for our women to start taking some…
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Sidelined in love

Hi Dave, I have an issue and being somewhat an introvert, I have no one to help out with an advice. I have been in a relationship for close to 6 years and I feel I’m either overreacting or things aren’t going well. For starter, most of the things I love doing have been…
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Cheated!

Hello Dave, I’m confused about something and I need your followers’ advice on it. I am currently married and my mother-in-law owns a restaurant and I’m a good cook myself so I mostly come up with ideas and menus for the place. Before I got married I used to do…