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He is caught up real hard

Dear David, my lawyer is telling me things that I feel he shouldn’t say to me. He became our family lawyer because of his association with my husband. They are schoolmates and best friends. I had an intuition that my husband was having an affair. He is the type who covers…
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Single and depressed

Hello Dave, please I need you and your contacts above 30, unmarried struggling single ladies,how are they handling this whole thing of being single because I’m losing it. There is not a single day that passes by without someone making reference to marriage. I will be 31…
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Will you date a heavy smoker?

Hi David good evening, please I want you and your fans to help me think. I am a girl of 27 years. I met this guy close to a month now and we are still getting to know each other. So we both decided to go out yesterday and he chose the location. He actually sent me to a place…
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Positive spin

My grandma gave birth to my mother at age 15. My mother had me at 16. I had my daughter at 18. My grandma died when I was 6. She never married. My father was forced to marry my mother when she got pregnant with me but their marriage ended because my father was already…
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Absence of sex

Hello David,I have a complicated issue and I think I need your help. My husband wants me to find another man to sleep with. I married young and he was a lot older than me. I want to be honest with my story. My husband is wealthy and I think he married me because I am…
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Nightmares

When I was 19 years, my parents died in a car accident. It was after we had been sent to my uncle’s house that I started experiencing these things. I will wake up abruptly in my sleep to room full of smoke. It is after a minute that I will realize there was no smoke…
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Stoic couple

I met my wife when we were both in level 300 at the university. This is not to say that, I had not met anyone or dated anyone before her though she had not. I had already come out of a broken relationship. I made my intentions known to her and it took a whole year for her to…
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Baby contract

David, I and my wife have been married for 8 years without a child. I want children, at least 3. I want to be a proud Papa and raise my strong sons and daughter. My wife knows how much I love children and because I didn’t want it to be an issue in our home, I had to…
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A mistake

Good evening. I have two problems in one. The 1st is that I was very sick in 2020, and hospitalized. Things weren’t going well for us financially because my wife and I are doing many projects. We both knew we didn’t have any secret savings anywhere. So when we were…
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Religious difference

Good afternoon Dave, please I need your help on something that is gradually eating me up. I am a Muslim and I have been dating this young Christian lady for about 2 years now. I intended to marry her, but about six months ago, an issue came up about our differences in faith.
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It's not enough

Hi David, I need your opinion. My husband has been working abroad for the past 5 years. He visits Ghana twice a year. Our agreement before he left was that if he is able to settle in the first 2 years, he will come for me and the children. We have two lovely boys. Things…
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She is my energy drink

I’m sitting on my bed, reading your timeline and laughing. I don’t share this story much but I want to share it with you. Good evening, seven years ago in June, my car was at the mechanic’s. I was using public transport. I closed from work one day and was walking to my…
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Crazy over b00bs

I want to be straightforward as possible. Dave, I love boobs, breasts appeal to me. In fact, I fall in love with it first before I see the person carrying it. I ogle at the sight of it and it turns me on. I like looking at breasts. The type I like is the type that is big…
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Scary surnames

Happy Easter Dave.This is my problem. The men I have fallen in love with all have scary surnames. I come from a family that does not joke with names and the meanings attached to them. My first guy and I dated for 2 years before I remembered my family may not approve of him…
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Making our marriage work

I don’t know how this fits into your daily posts but this is what is happening and had happened in my life since I married my wife. When her father walked her down the aisle to me in church on our wedding day, he whispered something to me that changed my mood that…
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Absolute trust

Mr. David, how are you? I want to tell you about something. Tell me if I’m wrong. I am trying to be honest with my husband but I think he is not sharing some of his innermost information with me. His brother died and we got to know through his widow that he has a lot of…