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Stabbed

“Dave, it’s been seven months and I am still sex starving. I have gotten to the point where I have psyched myself not to think of sex to even think of engaging in the act. This strategy of mine is now working as I don’t get the urge for sex any longer…
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Can't can

“No woman should have to tolerate such nonsense in a relationship. No woman should have to endure disrespect simply because they’re financially dependent on their husbands. I am hoping my story will encourage the young ladies out there. Don’t rush into any marriage…
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I went through it

“As I stood in the corridor, I was engulfed with grief and tears when another lecturer saw me and asked someone to bring me to his office. He ordered everyone out and set a box of tissues before me. When I had calmed down, he asked me what the problem was. I explained…
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Yaw

This is a man who has been through different experiences in his life and does not allow those experiences to limit or define him. The lessons learned from his past humbles him rather than him dwell on the insecurities or in the fears of those experiences. Yaw looks at life…
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D

“No matter who we are, the nemesis of whatever we do catches up with us eventually, and sometimes in ways we have no or very little control over. These lecturers shouldn’t be deceived that they would be getting away with what they’re doing. The devil just want to…
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Will give it all up

Some of us have become so busy in life that, we’ve allowed the lot to distract us from getting around to the very things and people we’re not supposed to be taking for granted. At the back of our minds, we know we’re neglecting the very people we’re to make a…
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Loaned Out

“He is a good guy, and the type that would do anything for me and our children. When I was battling cancer, he nursed me through it, took loans from banks just to ensure I got the treatment I needed. He stood by the kids when I couldn’t be there for them at home. He…
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Me Too

“Until last year, I took my vows seriously. My husband and I promised not to sleep with other people. That was the mutual agreement our marriage was built on. Dave, I come from a home that did the best it could to teach me values. My husband expects me to give him what…
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By 23

“Whenever you wake to push-open your curtains in the mornings, you have a choice to make. And these choices may or not define us, be it major or minor. These choices we make affect change. Question now is, would ‘the future’ you be proud of ‘the present’ you…
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Stay Woke

“I sometimes hate making tough decisions. The fear of picking the wrong options oftentimes leaves me confused and nothing gets done, and if it’s an important issue I am concerned about, then the problem ends up growing bigger and bigger.” &#8211…
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Hints

“I gave my husband a hug and told him how much I love him, and he smiled and looked at me with that look of, ‘oh!’ He asked me “but why?” I said nothing. I smiled back warmly, and then went to my car to drive to work.  I am writing from a heart that is almost…
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No longer afraid

A lot of the time we are so deep in the ditches of whatever love or marriage we think we are committed to, that we often do not see the mess we are in until it’s rather too late. I know, you need to do something different to make it work best for you and, maybe, the kids.
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It's all wrong but it's alright

Love is real and it can happen to all of us. However, if we are not discerning enough, an appearance can deceive us. A tone of voice can lead us astray. A sex act can confuse us. The heart of the human being can be insincere, and they can be so charming – even in their…
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Needle In The Hay

Forgiveness, we all know is a choice. It does not mean in any way that what your spouse did is okay. Can a marriage survive infidelity? Is there any way for a woman to exclusively, trust a man that has already been unfaithful to her once? Most women I know, are quick to…
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He Turned

“Good evening, David. I’d want to know your opinion: My husband had been unemployed for three years, and we both had been figuring ways out of our means to find him a job. I made a few contacts to contact their contacts about possible job vacancies. Thankfully, one came…
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Abortive office romp

Are men more sexual than women? Because most women would rather anticipate the whole sex idea before involving themselves in it. A woman would rather long for it to in a way, fuel her need to want to desire it. This woman would have preferred talking about it with her…