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Is he wasting my time?

Good evening David, I have been dating this guy for about 4 years. We met in the Greater Accra region but he comes from the Eastern Region. He is very secretive about our relationship and basically, only 2 of his housemates know that we are dating. We attend the same church…
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She needs sexual healing

Dave, hope you are well. I would be grateful if you can help me with this situation I’m in. I’ve known this lady for several years but we started dating 2018. It has been a good and awesome relationship so far, despite some odds that are against us.
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He's back BUT with a vasectomy

Good day Dave. Please hide my identity. I fell in love with a fellow classmate when we were teenagers. We dated when I was 18 and he was 19, so that means we were done with secondary school. Life took me to the university while he furthered his…
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Can't single mothers have it all?

Dave, I am now a single mum due to the lie of a man. I got to know he was married and backed off. Dave, my son is now three years and by the grace of God we don’t lack anything though his dad refused to be responsible. He has the means but won’t do it, just…
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She is seriously tempting me

Dave, trust you are doing well. Dave I almost sinned or should I say I have sinned? I almost slept with my friend’s wife. Dave, I should say I am a very disciplined young man. I have not had sex for the past four years so when the temptation presented…
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He’s remarried but won't divorce me

Hi Dave, God bless you for the good works that you have chosen to do with your page. I am a very troubled lady who needs advice urgently. Please keep me anonymous. I have a two-year-old daughter from a very short-lived marriage. The baby was barely five months when I…
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Help me apologize to him

Hi Dave, I’m a silent member on your page and I’ve learnt a lot from both stories and comments. Please I have an issue and I will need the advice from your noble audience. I’m currently staying with my guy with whom I have 2 kids with. We were not on good terms for…
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Pinned Down

“When you are married to a good woman, count yourself lucky, because there’s nothing else better than a wife who knows what she wants. Yes, your wife is strong-willed, ambitious and caring; brother, put some respect on her name. Because she’s going to fight…
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Her boyfriend wants to marry me

Hello Dave, How are you doing? I want your opinion on an issue. My mother has been telling me about her boyfriend. I know my mother, and I know she is in love with him. I was happy for her because she had given up so much for my sake. Every money she got, she…
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I am not stupid

Dearest Dave, I commend you for the good work you do to support people with relationship issues. Kindly make me anonymous. My husband and I have been married for almost two years and we have a 10-month-old baby and pregnant with the second child. When I noticed I was…
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Am I wasting my time?

Dear Dave, I don’t know if I am the only one thinking it, but sometimes I feel my husband bad mouths me to people he wants to please. I don’t know why I have this feeling. He talks about me and it is not always good stuff, especially to ladies he feels may support his…
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He's Close

“Everyone suffers at least one bad betrayal in their lifetime. It’s what unites us. The trick is not to let it destroy your trust in others when that happens. Don’t let them take that from you.” ― Sherrilyn Kenyon “My dad left the country when I was 9 years…
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She looks familiar

“I was in my worst and best moment. Worst in the sense that, I had broken up with my ex-boyfriend and was in a very bad disposition. Best moment in the sense that, I had met this stranger who was good at making me forget my misery. When I least expected or felt like I…
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It takes 3

“Dave, on a typical weekend afternoon at my Achimota complex, you would find me, my first wife, second wife and five children playing together as one unit. We all live here together, not as roommates but as a family at home. I am married to two women. No, I’m no…
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Tired of being tired

“He’s never said ‘I love you’ to me before but he sends me GHs 3000 every month, for 9 months now, to take care of myself. I have a special account for that bonus money, and I keep it hidden from all my transactions, so my husband accidentally, does not see it. I…
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Last wishes

“I asked my son what else their mother told them before she died, and he said, she told my daughter not to be under any obligation to continue staying in a marriage to any man who can break the ‘Forsaking all others’ part of his wedding vows to her. He also said…