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Cheating!

Mr. David, I need your help and it’s urgent. I am cheating on my husband. I am not justifying my actions. I just want to tell you how things managed to get this complicated. Two years ago, I felt this unrest in my spirit that he was having an affair. My husband is the type…
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Her love changed me.

I am plus 11 years in my marriage this week. We have four lovely monsters terrorizing us in the name of children. I used to think being single was the best feeling in the world, coupled with the fact that I was young and fresh too. Dave, there was freedom to size them all up…
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It was never love

Dave, I have been married for seven years with two very beautiful kids. My wife is the most perfect woman I have ever met in my entire life but the problem is I realized I just liked her humility but have never loved her. I confided in my mother to divorce her with same…
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A good companion

The day I met her for the first time, I could already feel a strong bond.The next day I told my colleagues at work. “I think I just met my future wife”. We became very close and were best friends during our dating period. When we got married, we became even closer. Sure…
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Academic qualification verses love

I have been dating this guy for 4 years and we were tight friends for a year before he proposed and I accepted. Both of us are cool together and we love each other a lot but the problem all started when my parents found out about him. My father first showed him likeness…
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Seduction

Hi Dave, please I want you to post this issue which is bothering me. Please keep me anonymous. My partner and I work in a small town. We live in a two bedroom self contained house. My partner travels to the state every March and comes back in September. In 2020 about 2 weeks…
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He must pay for assaulting me sexually

I want to take a decision that I think has a potential to destroy my family. I have discussed it with my husband and he is against it. I insisted I was going to do it anyway and he has given me the option to choose between our marriage and my intended plan. My father died…
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Unfair

Hello David, please help a brother. My cousin has a lot of contacts in very high places. Some of us know how she has managed to keep some of these men in her pocket because she sleeps with most of them or she had known them in that way in the past. She doesn’t work like…
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Heartbroken

Hello sir, I don’t know if it’s okay to share my experience with you.We met at the university. I was in my 2nd year and he was in his 3rd. The day I met him, he was talking to his father on the phone, begging him to do anything to get his fees for the semester paid. His…
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She still text her ex

Good evening bro Dave, please keep me anonymous. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 5 years now. I cheated on her in a year time. I pleaded with her and she forgave me. She also cheated on me in our second year,she pleaded and I forgave her and we promised…
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We don't fight

Good morning, bro! I’m a bit confused. My wife and I used to fight small but not with blows. She has decided that we are in this together and will never leave the marriage and I have decided to do same. So we ignore many things that should bring problems. I’m being as…
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A difficult mother-in-law

Good afternoon Dave, I trust you and your funs are fine. I’m sharing the story of how my mother-in-law broke my home. People may see the guy whose MIL is in charge of everything as overacting but with these things, unless you have experienced one. My ex husband is the 9th…
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Lunch with my ex husband's new girlfriend

Hi, can you help me with what to say? I am having lunch with my ex husband’s new girlfriend on Tuesday. I don’t know how the lady got my number but she called me. I am not supposed to tell my ex about our meeting. Those were her conditions. She wants to know all about…
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There are good men

Mr. Mbir, you are doing a great thing on Facebook. Some of us see what you have dedicated a part of your time to do and we are grateful. I started following you 5 months ago because my wife talks about your posts a lot in the house. I want to share my own story today. I was…
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In love with my Boss

I had a very good job that I loved. My contributions at home hugely made an impact in our lives as a family because we could afford a certain kind of lifestyle due to what my husband and I brought home at the end of every month. Something happened at work, so I had to…
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Manipulation

Hi David, there is a guy in my neighborhood. He is not married but has a child. I had suspected he likes me for the longest time but I didn’t have any reason to follow up because I am happily married. He approached me one day and told me my husband was seeing another…