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Crawling

Hello David, this is the first time I have had to come out on this rather sensitive issue that robbed me of my confidence growing up. Today I’m still battling it but I’m also fighting very hard to go past it. Growing up, my dad used to be verbally abusive with my…
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Marriage scares me

Dave, I’m 31 and have never dated, never had a boyfriend. I read the messages some women send about the hell they go through in their marital homes and honestly I am afraid of dating or getting married. I wonder if there are any good guys around. I’m gainfully employed…
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Married to men who don't deserve us

Sometimes people think the stories are not true. I was a very outgoing free-spirited ambitious lady until I met my former husband years ago. Everything was a little ok even though I saw some of the signs before we got married. This man will go to the toilet and refuse to…
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Focus!

Sometimes, we men forget what’s important in life especially when we have been in a relationship for a long time. I always felt like my wife nagged too much about everything and wanted too much from me, that nothing I did was ever right. She used to complain about not…
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She's my show

People think I am a great man, successful but behind this greatness is my encouraging wife. Dave, we all go through problems and challenges but the weight is never the same when a young wife who loves you has watched you go through hell and endure the sight of you…
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Pause!

Hello David, Please hide my identity. I am not ashamed of my story, but for the simple reason that I am yet to confront my mother and some siblings to aid my healing process. Talking about the business of stolen voices, this is mine. It was my mother who tore me down and…
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My husband the MP

Hi Bondze, I have a question for all the men on your page. But before I ask the question, I’d want to introduce the reason to you. My husband is an MP and he is campaigning to retain his seat in parliament for no work done. I find it difficult to understand how he can go…
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Standards

Hello David, I am a silent follower. After reading why women lose themselves after marriage stories, I concluded most men are cowards. Most men claim they want smart, confident, hardworking and straightforward women but once you agree to their proposal, they…
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Live, Love, Learn

Hey David, Again kudos…this platform is truly amazing and an opportunity for wise men and women to learn from people’s experiences. Marriage isn’t an easy journey because people have different experiences, baggages and backgrounds which influence…
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Marriage called off

Hello Dave, this is the second time I’m writing to you. This is not to share my story or problem but to say thank you for starting this series on how some women have lost their voices in their marriage. It has been an eye-opener for me especially. I’m not married yet but…
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Is he wasting my time?

Good evening David, I have been dating this guy for about 4 years. We met in the Greater Accra region but he comes from the Eastern Region. He is very secretive about our relationship and basically, only 2 of his housemates know that we are dating. We attend the same church…
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She needs sexual healing

Dave, hope you are well. I would be grateful if you can help me with this situation I’m in. I’ve known this lady for several years but we started dating 2018. It has been a good and awesome relationship so far, despite some odds that are against us.
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He's back BUT with a vasectomy

Good day Dave. Please hide my identity. I fell in love with a fellow classmate when we were teenagers. We dated when I was 18 and he was 19, so that means we were done with secondary school. Life took me to the university while he furthered his…
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Can't single mothers have it all?

Dave, I am now a single mum due to the lie of a man. I got to know he was married and backed off. Dave, my son is now three years and by the grace of God we don’t lack anything though his dad refused to be responsible. He has the means but won’t do it, just…
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She is seriously tempting me

Dave, trust you are doing well. Dave I almost sinned or should I say I have sinned? I almost slept with my friend’s wife. Dave, I should say I am a very disciplined young man. I have not had sex for the past four years so when the temptation presented…
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He’s remarried but won't divorce me

Hi Dave, God bless you for the good works that you have chosen to do with your page. I am a very troubled lady who needs advice urgently. Please keep me anonymous. I have a two-year-old daughter from a very short-lived marriage. The baby was barely five months when I…