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Cheating dreams

Dave, please tell me this is just a coincidence and it means nothing. I have three kids, all less than 10 years. The first child had a dream three weeks ago. I asked her to tell me about it and she preferred to rather sketch what it was. Her other siblings were asleep then.
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Deliberate faithfulness

Dear David Bondze-Mbir, I am smiling to myself because I am also sending you my story. I have been married for 16 years and all through the years, I have been faithful. I haven’t been always this decent. I used to know what was up. I lived it many times before meeting my…
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Everything has changed

Mr. David Bondze-Mbir, Happy New year. First time in your inbox with my story. I want to share with you because so far, I am enjoying your timeline. My ex-wife introduced me to my wife. I used to be married to a medical doctor. I messed things up between us by cheating. A…
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Unnecessary jealousy

Hi Dave, please conceal my identity. I’m a broadcaster and married with a child.My wife is kind, loving and hardworking. She is really content with what we have and she doesn’t compare herself to her peers. She is a graduate but not formally employed. She does her…
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Sexually Employed

I started documenting some unusual changes in my husband. The first for me was the lots of new styles and things he introduced in our sex life. I do not mind adventure in sex but this sudden need to try these new things with me in the bedroom, things that were never our…
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Postpartum depression

Hello Dave, hope you are doing well. I’m one of your silent followers. Your page has taught me a lot. I never thought I will one day contact you with a problem. Well, here I am and sorry if I write you a book. Dave, I am beginning to “hate” my husband and I hate…
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Excuses for poor performance?

Ah, I don’t get it when men try to give excuses for why they don’t last. My favourite is “sex is not like it is in movies, five minutes is okay” bla bla bla. Hw3, brother “sa wo ho yale3” and stop giving excuses or find different strategy. Kwata kwata, 3…
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Under 5-minute men

Mr. David, good morning, I read a post from the man who says he can’t go beyond 2 minutes. I think my husband is between 4 to 5 minutes. It’s not only him because it just occurred to me that, the exes I had dated all couldn’t go beyond 5 to 6 minutes. I have dated an…
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Split the bills?

Hello Dave, hope this text finds you well. Can you please ask your audience especially the married, how they run their home financially, like payment of bills, school fees and food. Whether it’s a 50/50 partnership, 70/30 or the man carries all the financial burden of…
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Cheap commodity

Mr.David, I need your advice urgently. I am a good woman and my husband has been testifying to that to his friends and family. I fell in love with a charming stranger who later became my friend and now husband. The odd thing about my husband is he makes other people believe…
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Sexual gratification

Good morning David, trust all is good. I have been reading about ladies complaining about how unsatisfied they are with their husbands in the bedroom because they don’t last. From personal experience, a lot of factors contribute to that. First of all, is everything…
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Silent prayer through sex

Hi, I read a comment under one of your posts on infidelity and I tried it. David, I just need your opinion on this. The lady who commented under your post said she suspected her husband to be cheating on her, and because she had no proof, she just prayed a prayer that…
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Keep the good for yourself

Mr Bondze Mbir, you are doing a great job with your Facebook that is why I want to share a segment of my love life with you. I have been following your account for 5 months and you have grown on me and my wife. I come from a good family. I haven’t lacked anything because…
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Sex marathon before divorce

You are making me remember things, David Bondze-Mbir. And it ain’t funny. I went to work one Friday, wearing a short skirt with no panties on, the morning after I had found out my husband was meeting his side chick at a hotel to spend the weekend. He told me he had an…
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Battle of trust

Mr. David hello, Let me go straight to the point. Some time ago, my husband came home and out of the blue, mentioned the name of a friend of mine that I have known for 18 years. He was speaking ill of her and was indirectly suggesting that I ended my friendship with her.
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I am not jealous

Hello Dave, hope you are doing well. I have a challenge which I hope you or your numerous followers can help me with. From way back, I know the primary responsibility of a man is to take care of the home financially by providing everything the family needs. Fulfilling that…