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She looks familiar

“I was in my worst and best moment. Worst in the sense that, I had broken up with my ex-boyfriend and was in a very bad disposition. Best moment in the sense that, I had met this stranger who was good at making me forget my misery. When I least expected or felt like I…
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It takes 3

“Dave, on a typical weekend afternoon at my Achimota complex, you would find me, my first wife, second wife and five children playing together as one unit. We all live here together, not as roommates but as a family at home. I am married to two women. No, I’m no…
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Tired of being tired

“He’s never said ‘I love you’ to me before but he sends me GHs 3000 every month, for 9 months now, to take care of myself. I have a special account for that bonus money, and I keep it hidden from all my transactions, so my husband accidentally, does not see it. I…
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Last wishes

“I asked my son what else their mother told them before she died, and he said, she told my daughter not to be under any obligation to continue staying in a marriage to any man who can break the ‘Forsaking all others’ part of his wedding vows to her. He also said…
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Stabbed

“Dave, it’s been seven months and I am still sex starving. I have gotten to the point where I have psyched myself not to think of sex to even think of engaging in the act. This strategy of mine is now working as I don’t get the urge for sex any longer…
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Can't can

“No woman should have to tolerate such nonsense in a relationship. No woman should have to endure disrespect simply because they’re financially dependent on their husbands. I am hoping my story will encourage the young ladies out there. Don’t rush into any marriage…
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I went through it

“As I stood in the corridor, I was engulfed with grief and tears when another lecturer saw me and asked someone to bring me to his office. He ordered everyone out and set a box of tissues before me. When I had calmed down, he asked me what the problem was. I explained…
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Yaw

This is a man who has been through different experiences in his life and does not allow those experiences to limit or define him. The lessons learned from his past humbles him rather than him dwell on the insecurities or in the fears of those experiences. Yaw looks at life…
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D

“No matter who we are, the nemesis of whatever we do catches up with us eventually, and sometimes in ways we have no or very little control over. These lecturers shouldn’t be deceived that they would be getting away with what they’re doing. The devil just want to…
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Will give it all up

Some of us have become so busy in life that, we’ve allowed the lot to distract us from getting around to the very things and people we’re not supposed to be taking for granted. At the back of our minds, we know we’re neglecting the very people we’re to make a…
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Loaned Out

“He is a good guy, and the type that would do anything for me and our children. When I was battling cancer, he nursed me through it, took loans from banks just to ensure I got the treatment I needed. He stood by the kids when I couldn’t be there for them at home. He…
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Me Too

“Until last year, I took my vows seriously. My husband and I promised not to sleep with other people. That was the mutual agreement our marriage was built on. Dave, I come from a home that did the best it could to teach me values. My husband expects me to give him what…
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By 23

“Whenever you wake to push-open your curtains in the mornings, you have a choice to make. And these choices may or not define us, be it major or minor. These choices we make affect change. Question now is, would ‘the future’ you be proud of ‘the present’ you…
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Stay Woke

“I sometimes hate making tough decisions. The fear of picking the wrong options oftentimes leaves me confused and nothing gets done, and if it’s an important issue I am concerned about, then the problem ends up growing bigger and bigger.” &#8211…
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Hints

“I gave my husband a hug and told him how much I love him, and he smiled and looked at me with that look of, ‘oh!’ He asked me “but why?” I said nothing. I smiled back warmly, and then went to my car to drive to work.  I am writing from a heart that is almost…
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No longer afraid

A lot of the time we are so deep in the ditches of whatever love or marriage we think we are committed to, that we often do not see the mess we are in until it’s rather too late. I know, you need to do something different to make it work best for you and, maybe, the kids.