Are men more sexual than women? Because most women would rather anticipate the whole sex idea before involving themselves in it. A woman would rather long for it to in a way, fuel her need to want to desire it. This woman would have preferred talking about it with her husband; connecting her emotions into it before the act. How about men? Was he expressing his tender loving self by showing up this way at his wife’s office? What is a man’s language of intimacy? – DBM
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IAG: Good evening, Dave. My husband came to my office unannounced today, asked me to tell my secretary not to allow anyone in from 1:30 PM to 2:30 PM. I thought he wanted to talk about something important, but no, he wanted sex. I told him it was my working hours and that, I couldn’t. He got pissed and tried forcing himself on me. I screamed for help. I give him sex at home when he wants it, we don’t have any real sex issues pending. So I don’t know what exactly came over him today.
When help finally entered my office, he was naked. He got dressed in their presence, and then removed his wedding ring and threw it on the floor. He’s not home yet. He has not called me since this afternoon. What do I do or say to him when he returns home?”
David Bondze (DB): Good afternoon. How are you?
IAG: I do not know, Dave.
DB: Did you read the comments on Facebook?
IAG: I did.
DB: Okay?
IAG: He’s pissed. He says I did not have to embarrass him on Social Media too.
DB: Meaning?
IAG: I think he read it last night on someone’s Facebook. You shouldn’t have allowed people to share it.
DB: I’m terribly sorry.
IAG: That’s okay. It has already happened.
DB: So, he came home then?
IAG: He did.
DB: Hmmm!
IAG: Did I really do wrong by screaming?
DB: I don’t know, but trust me, I do understand you.
IAG: Sometimes I feel he doesn’t take me serious or listen to me when I tell him I do not like something.
DB: You don’t feel heard!
IAG: I don’t, Dave, at all. He’s always having his way. I need to gather enough strength to be facing him.
DB: How long have you been married?
IAG: Four years.
DB: I see. Kids?
IAG: We have a child.
DB: Ok!
IAG: He shouldn’t have tried forcing himself on me. He does that a lot at home. I wake up sometimes at dawn and he’s already playing with my clitoris with his tongue or finger. Sometimes, I wake up to find him inside me. I don’t like all this, Dave. I don’t like it.
DB: Hmmm! Then your ‘distin’ should be that sweet for him to want to steal it.
IAG: He acts creepy at home. He creeps me out.
DB: He might not be necessarily evil, you know? He may be immature but don’t judge him so much.
IAG: I give him sex more times than most women I know would. I do not deny him that. I love my husband.
DB: You embarrassed him in a way though.
IAG: I know, I felt bad about it too.
DB: Have you apologized to him?
IAG: I have.
DB: Good!
IAG: But he says I shouldn’t be complaining should he not want to have sex with me anymore.
DB: What does that mean?
IAG: I don’t know. He doesn’t want to forgive me.
DB: Does he love you?
IAG: I guess. I was at his office this morning.
DB: To do what?
IAG: To hold his face, and touch his lips. I looked deep into his soul, and kissed him as if nothing else mattered.
DB: Awwww!
IAG: I love that man, Dave. I just wish he could be a little reasonable.
DB: Hmmm! Did he kiss back?
IAG: He did.
DB: I’m glad he expressed himself also with the kiss.
IAG: Yeah, it felt good!
DB: Where did he go yesterday, after leaving your office?
IAG: Home.
DB: Awwww!
IAG: Yeah!
DB: Has he called or texted you today?
IAG: No.
DB: But he used to, prior to yesterday’s event?
IAG: Yes.
DB: Just give him time to put his thoughts together.
IAG: You think he’d come along?
DB: Only time would tell.
IAG: Okay. I have a meeting. I need to prepare for it.
DB: Sure! Please make it your best day ever,
IAG: Thanks Dave.
Dave I felt very bad and sad for the husband reading through. Hmmm some wife push their good husband away from their lives forgetting that there are some young single girls who are doing all they can in their power to win somebody’s husband. I don’t support cheating.
A wife wakes up to observe her husband playing with her body and she gets offended, why don’t the wife just allow him have his way and even offer him sex after ways or schedule it with him. Is it evil for a husband to play with his wife’s clitoris etc ? He request for sex you refuse him. So what do you want him to do?
It is not easy been a man with a live dick.
Concerning Married Life
7 Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. 3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 1 Corinthians 7:1-5
May your fountain be blessed,
and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.
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A loving doe, a graceful deer—
may her breasts satisfy you always,
may you ever be intoxicated with her love. Proverbs 5:18-19
Lady like I said you messd up big time. But we all make mistakes. You need to fix this ASAP. Surprise him at his office also and make love to him right on his desk. I think that’s he only way he can let this go. If I found my husband playing with my body while I was asleep my dear I will jump right on top and let him have it. What!!! Pls what some of us a praying for you are objecting to it? Madam why? Did you forget the vows you took? Your body is his so is his. My husband needs to come to learn a few things from your husband.