I am not able to have an erection anymore. They have given me injections since the accident. I have taken Viagra, even tried vacuum pump just to see if it could create that pumping sensation when it’s placed on my penis to create the blood flow needed for normal erection.
I am not even asking for much, 59 SECONDS of erection to penetrate my wife is all I ask, but Dave that has now become a luxury I can no longer afford. I am just 43 years old, full of life but cannot erect for 6 seconds. I am unable to get or keep an erection firm enough for sexual intercourse.
Before that, I was on my best game in the bedroom with my wife and outside of my matrimonial home. I have been married for 11 years and for the past three years, I have been impotent. I was involved in a freaky car accident in 2017 and was hospitalized, deeply sedated with critical injuries. Even when I gained consciousness, I thought I was going to dies eventually.
The lady I had been seeing secretly died on the spot. I don’t know if my wife has forgiven me because she doesn’t talk about it. My doctors have tried everything to help with the erectile dysfunction.
Dear David Mbir Bondze, I have been following your discussion on the under 5 minutes penis erection topic and I just shake my head. If only the guys would cherish what they have and can do with it, they would be proud of their 2 minutes if it can only thrust and cum in a hole. I cannot ask what’s on my wife’s mind because I hurt her so badly when she discovered the affair after my accident.
I was proud of my 8 to 10 minutes sexual intercourse performance before my accident. I didn’t mind sharing it with other women but now, who else would want me if not my wife, even with her; I don’t know what she thinks of me now. Doctors have asked us to find new ways to have fun in the bedroom without penetration. For now, I am left with no choice but to focus less on ever performing and more on creating a pleasure zone.
No man wants to be in my shoes, especially if you have a younger woman for a wife. What we explore now is deep kissing, grinding and anal pleasure when I am fingered. By the way, I think my wife is cheating on me, but I can’t complain, can I?