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Last wishes

“I asked my son what else their mother told them before she died, and he said, she told my daughter not to be under any obligation to continue staying in a marriage to any man who can break the ‘Forsaking all others’ part of his wedding vows to her. He also said…
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Stabbed

“Dave, it’s been seven months and I am still sex starving. I have gotten to the point where I have psyched myself not to think of sex to even think of engaging in the act. This strategy of mine is now working as I don’t get the urge for sex any longer…
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Can't can

“No woman should have to tolerate such nonsense in a relationship. No woman should have to endure disrespect simply because they’re financially dependent on their husbands. I am hoping my story will encourage the young ladies out there. Don’t rush into any marriage…
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I went through it

“As I stood in the corridor, I was engulfed with grief and tears when another lecturer saw me and asked someone to bring me to his office. He ordered everyone out and set a box of tissues before me. When I had calmed down, he asked me what the problem was. I explained…
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Yaw

This is a man who has been through different experiences in his life and does not allow those experiences to limit or define him. The lessons learned from his past humbles him rather than him dwell on the insecurities or in the fears of those experiences. Yaw looks at life…
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D

“No matter who we are, the nemesis of whatever we do catches up with us eventually, and sometimes in ways we have no or very little control over. These lecturers shouldn’t be deceived that they would be getting away with what they’re doing. The devil just want to…
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Will give it all up

Some of us have become so busy in life that, we’ve allowed the lot to distract us from getting around to the very things and people we’re not supposed to be taking for granted. At the back of our minds, we know we’re neglecting the very people we’re to make a…
#TheSurvey

Rough Road

She’s been trying to have a baby with her husband for years but it’s just not happening. Then her husband finds out for the first time about her abortion history. Would you be upset by the knowledge of your wife’s disturbing past? Say, she slept with four men in three…
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Aunty Akua’s Recipe

“We’ve been married for 10 years, and he’s not allowed our romance to fizzle out over the years. I’ve not felt insecure about the relationship in any way, since we got together. He’s always making me feel special with his compliments and attention to me. My…
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A sweet place to fall.

“She doesn’t have to do much to get my attention. She doesn’t have to do much to get me interested. She doesn’t have to do much to get me in love. She doesn’t have to do much to keep me aroused. She doesn’t have to do much to make me forgive. She doesn’t…
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Loaned Out

“He is a good guy, and the type that would do anything for me and our children. When I was battling cancer, he nursed me through it, took loans from banks just to ensure I got the treatment I needed. He stood by the kids when I couldn’t be there for them at home. He…
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Revelations 4 verse 2

“At that point, there was nothing I could do as their friend. I needed to wait for that moment she would come to terms with the fact that, her husband had made a choice, and it wasn’t her. I needed to wait for that moment she would make the hardest decision to let go…
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Hurt people hurt people

When the body, mind, emotion and spirit of a mother is affected by grief – this could be one of the possible reactions she’d have in response to the death or loss of a child. Can a woman get over grief by forgetting about her child that died, and whoever might…
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Kɔtse dur

“Good morning Mr. David Bondze-Mbir. I pray you see this post . We need help and kindly keep me anonymous . Kindly let your followers help us if they could. My husband and I (we both early 30’s) are facing something serious. We married for five years now with two…
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Me Too

“Until last year, I took my vows seriously. My husband and I promised not to sleep with other people. That was the mutual agreement our marriage was built on. Dave, I come from a home that did the best it could to teach me values. My husband expects me to give him what…
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All good

Should the spouse always come first (as in, become a priority) before there are even children blessed to the marriage? Without a strong marriage, and a seemingly, loving home, can the whole idea of children thrive? Are spouses of today, only concerned about their need to get…