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He’s remarried and won't divorce me

Hi Dave, God bless you for the good works that you have chosen to do with your page. I am a very troubled lady who needs advice urgently. Please keep me anonymous. I have a two-year-old daughter from a very short-lived marriage. The baby was barely five months when I…
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Help me apologize to him

Hi Dave, I’m a silent member on your page and I’ve learnt a lot from both stories and comments. Please I have an issue and I will need the advice from your noble audience. I’m currently staying with my guy with whom I have 2 kids with. We were not on good terms for…
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Pinned Down

“When you are married to a good woman, count yourself lucky, because there’s nothing else better than a wife who knows what she wants. Yes, your wife is strong-willed, ambitious and caring; brother, put some respect on her name. Because she’s going to fight…
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Her boyfriend wants to marry me

Hello Dave, How are you doing? I want your opinion on an issue. My mother has been telling me about her boyfriend. I know my mother, and I know she is in love with him. I was happy for her because she had given up so much for my sake. Every money she got, she…
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I am not stupid

Dearest Dave, I commend you for the good work you do to support people with relationship issues. Kindly make me anonymous. My husband and I have been married for almost two years and we have a 10-month-old baby and pregnant with the second child. When I noticed I was…
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We Move On

“I asked my mother why she was staying in that marriage. She feared being alone. She feared being rejected by other men for being ‘too old’ or a mother of four. She was in her mid-40’s. She didn’t want to fail at parenting us by herself. So, I asked her, ‘If…
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Am I wasting my time?

Dear Dave, I don’t know if I am the only one thinking it, but sometimes I feel my husband bad mouths me to people he wants to please. I don’t know why I have this feeling. He talks about me and it is not always good stuff, especially to ladies he feels may support his…
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He's Close

“Everyone suffers at least one bad betrayal in their lifetime. It’s what unites us. The trick is not to let it destroy your trust in others when that happens. Don’t let them take that from you.” ― Sherrilyn Kenyon “My dad left the country when I was 9 years…
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Mr. T

“I’ve seen the Black Stars of Ghana train for the World Cup, but have never won. Making the decision to want to commit to my wife in this marriage never guaranteed my faithfulness, which happens to be her ultimate expectation of me. I wasn’t sure I could meet those…
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Save me from myself

“I have also embraced my role as her protector, in other worse, I have no plans to deliberately, or ever wound her. She deserves better. I will no longer let my children down, just for the sake of their mothers; I will be better and raise them to be better men.
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P3

“We live in a world that is always encouraging us to pursue happiness. We are asked to do whatever we love and chase our dreams, follow our hearts. There is nothing wrong with that. In the same way, happiness can never be the end-game if you are married. Feeling happy…
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Finding Esi

“My marriage to my wife comes first. Esi is the most important thing in my life; more important than my children, more important than work, more important than my parents and siblings, more important than my friends and love for football and the gym. My marriage to my…
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She looks familiar

“I was in my worst and best moment. Worst in the sense that, I had broken up with my ex-boyfriend and was in a very bad disposition. Best moment in the sense that, I had met this stranger who was good at making me forget my misery. When I least expected or felt like I…
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It takes 3

“Dave, on a typical weekend afternoon at my Achimota complex, you would find me, my first wife, second wife and five children playing together as one unit. We all live here together, not as roommates but as a family at home. I am married to two women. No, I’m no…
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Tired of being tired

“He’s never said ‘I love you’ to me before but he sends me GHs 3000 every month, for 9 months now, to take care of myself. I have a special account for that bonus money, and I keep it hidden from all my transactions, so my husband accidentally, does not see it. I…
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Last wishes

“I asked my son what else their mother told them before she died, and he said, she told my daughter not to be under any obligation to continue staying in a marriage to any man who can break the ‘Forsaking all others’ part of his wedding vows to her. He also said…