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Mr. T

“I’ve seen the Black Stars of Ghana train for the World Cup, but have never won. Making the decision to want to commit to my wife in this marriage never guaranteed my faithfulness, which happens to be her ultimate expectation of me. I wasn’t sure I could meet those…
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Save me from myself

“I have also embraced my role as her protector, in other worse, I have no plans to deliberately, or ever wound her. She deserves better. I will no longer let my children down, just for the sake of their mothers; I will be better and raise them to be better men.
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P3

“We live in a world that is always encouraging us to pursue happiness. We are asked to do whatever we love and chase our dreams, follow our hearts. There is nothing wrong with that. In the same way, happiness can never be the end-game if you are married. Feeling happy…
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Finding Esi

“My marriage to my wife comes first. Esi is the most important thing in my life; more important than my children, more important than work, more important than my parents and siblings, more important than my friends and love for football and the gym. My marriage to my…
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She looks familiar

“I was in my worst and best moment. Worst in the sense that, I had broken up with my ex-boyfriend and was in a very bad disposition. Best moment in the sense that, I had met this stranger who was good at making me forget my misery. When I least expected or felt like I…
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It takes 3

“Dave, on a typical weekend afternoon at my Achimota complex, you would find me, my first wife, second wife and five children playing together as one unit. We all live here together, not as roommates but as a family at home. I am married to two women. No, I’m no…
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Tired of being tired

“He’s never said ‘I love you’ to me before but he sends me GHs 3000 every month, for 9 months now, to take care of myself. I have a special account for that bonus money, and I keep it hidden from all my transactions, so my husband accidentally, does not see it. I…
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Last wishes

“I asked my son what else their mother told them before she died, and he said, she told my daughter not to be under any obligation to continue staying in a marriage to any man who can break the ‘Forsaking all others’ part of his wedding vows to her. He also said…
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Stabbed

“Dave, it’s been seven months and I am still sex starving. I have gotten to the point where I have psyched myself not to think of sex to even think of engaging in the act. This strategy of mine is now working as I don’t get the urge for sex any longer…
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Can't can

“No woman should have to tolerate such nonsense in a relationship. No woman should have to endure disrespect simply because they’re financially dependent on their husbands. I am hoping my story will encourage the young ladies out there. Don’t rush into any marriage…
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I went through it

“As I stood in the corridor, I was engulfed with grief and tears when another lecturer saw me and asked someone to bring me to his office. He ordered everyone out and set a box of tissues before me. When I had calmed down, he asked me what the problem was. I explained…
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Yaw

This is a man who has been through different experiences in his life and does not allow those experiences to limit or define him. The lessons learned from his past humbles him rather than him dwell on the insecurities or in the fears of those experiences. Yaw looks at life…
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D

“No matter who we are, the nemesis of whatever we do catches up with us eventually, and sometimes in ways we have no or very little control over. These lecturers shouldn’t be deceived that they would be getting away with what they’re doing. The devil just want to…
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Will give it all up

Some of us have become so busy in life that, we’ve allowed the lot to distract us from getting around to the very things and people we’re not supposed to be taking for granted. At the back of our minds, we know we’re neglecting the very people we’re to make a…
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Rough Road

She’s been trying to have a baby with her husband for years but it’s just not happening. Then her husband finds out for the first time about her abortion history. Would you be upset by the knowledge of your wife’s disturbing past? Say, she slept with four men in three…
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Aunty Akua’s Recipe

“We’ve been married for 10 years, and he’s not allowed our romance to fizzle out over the years. I’ve not felt insecure about the relationship in any way, since we got together. He’s always making me feel special with his compliments and attention to me. My…