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Hints

August 20, 2019
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Crisis Management

August 15, 2019
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Worth it

August 12, 2019
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Hints

August 20, 2019
“I gave my husband a hug and told him how much I love him, and he smiled and looked at me with that look of, ‘oh!’ He asked me “but why?” I said nothing. I smiled back warmly, and then went to my car to drive to work.  I am writing from a heart that is almost…
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Crisis Management

August 15, 2019
I hear that the Chinese people use two brush strokes to always write the word crisis. One brush stroke, I’m informed stands for danger; and the other signifying opportunity. So in other words, whenever you find yourself in crisis, be intentionally aware of the danger…
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Worth it

August 12, 2019
Have you ever felt uncertain about your fertility and questioned yourself as a woman and a wife? Have you ever been scared of the thought of not being able to give your spouse children? Is your body having a hard time doing what a woman is usually expected to do? Is the…
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Air of Gravity

August 11, 2019
A very good friend asked why there seems to be no gravity when we are in the elevator, and I was like, “Hmmm!” Then she tried explaining gravity to me all over again: According to the physics she thinks she remembers from school, gravity is the natural force we all know…
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Just saying

August 10, 2019
He’s been struggling with this problem for years. The self-doubt and self-loathing, the state of hopelessness and fear. Every day in a relationship was hard on him, because he could not tell whether or not it could be for the long haul with the women. In fact, his emotions…
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Having My Babies

August 9, 2019
You’ve been happily married for a while now and you had been trying to conceive without any luck. Your tests turned up relatively normal and you were being told that you should be able to conceive, yet you seemed to be failing. Then you got introduced to intrauterine…
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The strength of man

August 8, 2019
“The beginning of love is the will to let those we love be perfectly themselves, the resolution not to twist them to fit our own image. If in loving them we do not love what they are, but only their potential likeness to ourselves, then we do not love them: we only love…
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30 years later...

August 1, 2019
She hasn’t been able to heal the resulting feelings of abandonment. And due to this she’s still emotionally stuck at the age of her earliest wounds. This is causing her to repeat her past experiences of suffering and anger and hurt and unforgiveness. She’s back to the…
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A walk in those

July 29, 2019
Do you have a secret within your secret? Why have you not told anyone? Are you ashamed of the contents of the secret? Or you just don’t feel like getting into the story all over again, to have to be explaining why you’re not your past? Should one make themselves…
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In-waiting

July 24, 2019
It always starts with that simple text or phone call, trying to check on them. In your mind, you two are just in the ‘platonics’, nothing really serious going on. But then, flashes of them comes to mind spasmodically, sometimes even when you’re not thinking about them.
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No longer afraid

July 23, 2019
A lot of the time we are so deep in the ditches of whatever love or marriage we think we are committed to, that we often do not see the mess we are in until it’s rather too late. I know, you need to do something different to make it work best for you and, maybe, the kids.
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It's all wrong but it's alright

July 22, 2019
Love is real and it can happen to all of us. However, if we are not discerning enough, an appearance can deceive us. A tone of voice can lead us astray. A sex act can confuse us. The heart of the human being can be insincere, and they can be so charming – even in their…
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Crossing the line

July 18, 2019
Is it wrong to date your best friend’s ex? How disrespectful is that? Can one date a friend’s ex – with or without their permission? Is loving such people even worth the pursuit, regardless? How about friendship? Is it worth sacrificing all in the name of love? Can one…
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Coded

July 12, 2019
How long are you willing to stay in that relationship/marriage, knowing very well how unhappy and fed-up you are. You know you’re out of steam, yet you’re still in it with them. What exactly are you waiting for? What is your breaking point in that relationship? Or…
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Sex

July 12, 2019
Sex, we all know is a wonderful way to celebrate love, freedom and everything else that feels good from within. To some, it relieves stress. To others, it’s the healing drug. It’s fun to many, and it’s all good. Many of us love sex because it’s a big part of our…
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Needle In The Hay

July 11, 2019
Forgiveness, we all know is a choice. It does not mean in any way that what your spouse did is okay. Can a marriage survive infidelity? Is there any way for a woman to exclusively, trust a man that has already been unfaithful to her once? Most women I know, are quick to…
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