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Same faith, different doctrines

Good evening Sir. Please I hope you are doing well. I have an issue with my fiancé. We are preparing to get married God willing by September. Mr. Dave, we all agreed that we wouldn’t allow religious doctrines come between us. We are both Christians. I’m a Pentecostal…
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He is caught up real hard

Dear David, my lawyer is telling me things that I feel he shouldn’t say to me. He became our family lawyer because of his association with my husband. They are schoolmates and best friends. I had an intuition that my husband was having an affair. He is the type who covers…
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Single and depressed

Hello Dave, please I need you and your contacts above 30, unmarried struggling single ladies,how are they handling this whole thing of being single because I’m losing it. There is not a single day that passes by without someone making reference to marriage. I will be 31…
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Will you date a heavy smoker?

Hi David good evening, please I want you and your fans to help me think. I am a girl of 27 years. I met this guy close to a month now and we are still getting to know each other. So we both decided to go out yesterday and he chose the location. He actually sent me to a place…
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Positive spin

My grandma gave birth to my mother at age 15. My mother had me at 16. I had my daughter at 18. My grandma died when I was 6. She never married. My father was forced to marry my mother when she got pregnant with me but their marriage ended because my father was already…
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Absence of sex

Hello David,I have a complicated issue and I think I need your help. My husband wants me to find another man to sleep with. I married young and he was a lot older than me. I want to be honest with my story. My husband is wealthy and I think he married me because I am…
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Nightmares

When I was 19 years, my parents died in a car accident. It was after we had been sent to my uncle’s house that I started experiencing these things. I will wake up abruptly in my sleep to room full of smoke. It is after a minute that I will realize there was no smoke…
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Stoic couple

I met my wife when we were both in level 300 at the university. This is not to say that, I had not met anyone or dated anyone before her though she had not. I had already come out of a broken relationship. I made my intentions known to her and it took a whole year for her to…
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Baby contract

David, I and my wife have been married for 8 years without a child. I want children, at least 3. I want to be a proud Papa and raise my strong sons and daughter. My wife knows how much I love children and because I didn’t want it to be an issue in our home, I had to…
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A mistake

Good evening. I have two problems in one. The 1st is that I was very sick in 2020, and hospitalized. Things weren’t going well for us financially because my wife and I are doing many projects. We both knew we didn’t have any secret savings anywhere. So when we were…
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Religious difference

Good afternoon Dave, please I need your help on something that is gradually eating me up. I am a Muslim and I have been dating this young Christian lady for about 2 years now. I intended to marry her, but about six months ago, an issue came up about our differences in faith.
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It's not enough

Hi David, I need your opinion. My husband has been working abroad for the past 5 years. He visits Ghana twice a year. Our agreement before he left was that if he is able to settle in the first 2 years, he will come for me and the children. We have two lovely boys. Things…
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She is my energy drink

I’m sitting on my bed, reading your timeline and laughing. I don’t share this story much but I want to share it with you. Good evening, seven years ago in June, my car was at the mechanic’s. I was using public transport. I closed from work one day and was walking to my…
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Crazy over b00bs

I want to be straightforward as possible. Dave, I love boobs, breasts appeal to me. In fact, I fall in love with it first before I see the person carrying it. I ogle at the sight of it and it turns me on. I like looking at breasts. The type I like is the type that is big…
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Scary surnames

Happy Easter Dave.This is my problem. The men I have fallen in love with all have scary surnames. I come from a family that does not joke with names and the meanings attached to them. My first guy and I dated for 2 years before I remembered my family may not approve of him…
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Making our marriage work

I don’t know how this fits into your daily posts but this is what is happening and had happened in my life since I married my wife. When her father walked her down the aisle to me in church on our wedding day, he whispered something to me that changed my mood that…